I Love Carats
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Jul 13, 2008
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Here''s the situation: 3 months until I move in (eeeekkkk!!!)
I''m not going to lie-I''ve talked A LOT about rings/diamonds with my BF. I kind of feel bad now because he really is all about doing everything on his own (without my help). I understand, but at the same time I want to make sure he doesn''t blow a bunch of money that he doesn''t need to. I may or may not bring up larger stones then I think he''s thinking which puts him in a weird place. I know that he is going to get the best stone that he can (at a reasonable price for us) but I think he''s also going to be a little hestitant (i.e. it''s going to be too small for her). This is totally not the case-but it''s hard for me to get him to understand that. I would never say, "take it back, I want something bigger." Whatever he gets will be perfect. Does anyone else feel this way? Like-you are stuck if you talk about it because you are afraid you are overshooting what you might get?
I''m not going to lie-I''ve talked A LOT about rings/diamonds with my BF. I kind of feel bad now because he really is all about doing everything on his own (without my help). I understand, but at the same time I want to make sure he doesn''t blow a bunch of money that he doesn''t need to. I may or may not bring up larger stones then I think he''s thinking which puts him in a weird place. I know that he is going to get the best stone that he can (at a reasonable price for us) but I think he''s also going to be a little hestitant (i.e. it''s going to be too small for her). This is totally not the case-but it''s hard for me to get him to understand that. I would never say, "take it back, I want something bigger." Whatever he gets will be perfect. Does anyone else feel this way? Like-you are stuck if you talk about it because you are afraid you are overshooting what you might get?