luckystar112
Ideal_Rock
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First, let me say....that it is SO comforting to know that other girls on this board have had to give their BF''s a *nudge* when it comes to proposing. If I hadn''t discovered this forum and found out other girls were in the same situation, my self esteem would probably be non-existant!
But, with the divorce rate being so high--do you think that this in any way contributes to it?
I think most of us are safe, because we only give the *nudge* after we KNOW that our BFs want to marry us...instead of putting him in a corner. But what about those that DO put their BF''s in a corner?
I actually don''t at ALL believe in the 50% statistics for divorce. For one thing, the success rate for first time marriages is a lot higher than people want you to believe. The 50% percentage rate for divorce is so high due to the "serial marriers" with multiple divorces under their belts. (I''m sure all of us know at least ONE person that has been married 3-4 times.)
I was just wondering about this today...probably because I''m going to be engaged soon, and I did have a "talk" with my BF just like so many of you lovely ladies have. Maybe I''m just paranoid.
I don''t think I''m making my BF do anything he doesn''t want to do, but I do wish I didn''t have to give that "nudge". Does anyone else feel that way?
But, with the divorce rate being so high--do you think that this in any way contributes to it?
I think most of us are safe, because we only give the *nudge* after we KNOW that our BFs want to marry us...instead of putting him in a corner. But what about those that DO put their BF''s in a corner?
I actually don''t at ALL believe in the 50% statistics for divorce. For one thing, the success rate for first time marriages is a lot higher than people want you to believe. The 50% percentage rate for divorce is so high due to the "serial marriers" with multiple divorces under their belts. (I''m sure all of us know at least ONE person that has been married 3-4 times.)
I was just wondering about this today...probably because I''m going to be engaged soon, and I did have a "talk" with my BF just like so many of you lovely ladies have. Maybe I''m just paranoid.