I''ve been thinking about this topic over the last few days and I wanted to see what all the other LIWs think of their own relationships. Obviously, there are many facets of a person and of a relationship so the examples that I listed below are certainly not all-encompassing representations of either gender, I am just curious as to where on the spectrum you all see yourselves and your significant others and why.
I am the more traditionally ''masculine'' half of our relationship. When I graduate, I will be the professional, I will be the breadwinner, I will work 8-5 while he stays home with the kids, I can barely cook, I''m the more distant one when it comes to talking about feelings, it took me longer to be marriage-ready (despite my LIW status now). He loves to cook dinner every night, he is not so attached to his career and is insanely excited to be a stay-at-home dad, he loves talking about our relationship and knew he wanted to marry me about 4 months into it, he gets all goobery about me at work (according to his co-workers). I am strength, he is grace.
I think all of these are reasons that we work so well together. We are all of these things without each other, and the complement we found in each other is just natural.
I am the more traditionally ''masculine'' half of our relationship. When I graduate, I will be the professional, I will be the breadwinner, I will work 8-5 while he stays home with the kids, I can barely cook, I''m the more distant one when it comes to talking about feelings, it took me longer to be marriage-ready (despite my LIW status now). He loves to cook dinner every night, he is not so attached to his career and is insanely excited to be a stay-at-home dad, he loves talking about our relationship and knew he wanted to marry me about 4 months into it, he gets all goobery about me at work (according to his co-workers). I am strength, he is grace.
I think all of these are reasons that we work so well together. We are all of these things without each other, and the complement we found in each other is just natural.