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Ideal_Rock
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I figured I would ask the experts here, I am the coach for a team, and a team member''s mother just died. The obituary says "in lieu of flowers give donations to her church." People are calling me to see if I''m going to send flowers...should I just collect for donations? Heck I would send all the flowers I can, such a lovely woman to lose her long fight with a hideous disease. Is it respecting her wishes to send the donations and not respecting her wishes to send flowers? Is it going to be good for kids to see the flowers that they sent and feel like they were a part of celebrating her life? I''m torn and leaning towards doing both. What would you do?