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Brilliant_Rock
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- Mar 11, 2005
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before getting married, how long did your ''he''s driving me mental'' stage last? Other friends of mine that have been married at least a few years tell me that there will be moments in the first six months to a year that you might want to strangle each other. But I''m not sure if we have been ''average''.
Yesterday we had yet another argument because I said what was on my mind about his driving. Over the weekend, it happened becasue I pointed out to him why cleaning is important and that it seems to only get done when I do it. It seems like voicing my opinion causes tension. I don''t know if it me or he just doesn''t like hearing something that he knows is right.
This has happening far too much in the past couple of months. A few weeks ago, he fessed up that he thought I was too demanding, after asking him once again to make an effort to keep things organized. Personally I don''t think asking for a clean, decent-looking place to live is too much to ask. It''s a small place and especially since he''s got cats.
Is it me?
Yesterday we had yet another argument because I said what was on my mind about his driving. Over the weekend, it happened becasue I pointed out to him why cleaning is important and that it seems to only get done when I do it. It seems like voicing my opinion causes tension. I don''t know if it me or he just doesn''t like hearing something that he knows is right.
This has happening far too much in the past couple of months. A few weeks ago, he fessed up that he thought I was too demanding, after asking him once again to make an effort to keep things organized. Personally I don''t think asking for a clean, decent-looking place to live is too much to ask. It''s a small place and especially since he''s got cats.
Is it me?