Dreamgirl
Ideal_Rock
- Joined
- Mar 25, 2008
- Messages
- 5,070
I didn't sleep AT ALL last night and I've GOT to get this all out. What better place than here?!! (It's nothing bad BTW)
So for my birthday on Friday S got me a very darling RHR. It was a total surprise and I love it!
I had kind of wanted a new RHR for a few years now but didn't want anything too fancy because once engaged, I don't even know if I will wear a RHR. When I put it on he was all smile face and said "Your very first Tiffany ring!" to which I playfully reply "So is my second one going to have diamonds?"
To make a long story short, it was a size 5.5 (this is the size of my ring finger) but since it's for the right hand and 3mm wide, it was a little tight. We took it back yesterday and wanted to try the size 6 which they are out of but are sending it to me this week. So there has been a lot of "ring fitting" discussion going on this weekend due to that. He also said to me more than once and to the SA yesterday 3 TIMES "Well, I guess it's ok if it's a little big and spins anyway because it isn't like there is a stone on it, I guess it would have to fit better with a stone..."
After that we are at the Library to pick up some stuff (DVD's & a custom home building book) when S says "hey, I know a book I think you will like" and takes me over to where this said book was. So it's a "How to Buy a Diamond" book. Which is strange because probably a year ago now I showed him a very similar book at the Library and he was disinterested, slighly annoyed. You know the behavior..."Don't talk to me about rings" type attitude lol. Anyway he grabs another book next to it "Engagement and Wedding Rings" and tells me to check them both out to look at.
um...ok...........
So yesterday evening he went on the computer at my house and I was talking to him. I was asking him if he was going to be on there very long and he said "Nope, just checking my email" to which he opens his email box and guess what I see? SEVERAL emails sent to himself from himself entitled...
Subject#1: gemstones
Subject#2: gemstones
Subject#3: wedding bands
and then others that said something in reference of how to buy a diamond, with this ring...etc..etc..
He CLICKS out of it super fast as if "Oops! Oh crap!" and I didn't say a word about it.
(I got super giddy feeling yet sick feeling at the same time) I just kept talking like I didn't see but now it's driving me insane. I don't know if he knows I saw it. What was that all about?! I'm up all night thinking about it. Is he bored? It doesn't make sense to me that he would look at this stuff because he lost his job in April (currently looking and has interviewed for others). But still, at this point it wouldn't make sense to me. He's all about saving money and being "set" as far as a job and money goes. That's why I'm thinking maybe he's getting super bored and now looking at this stuff. Maybe it has something to do with my RHR and all the "how the ring fits" discussions. OMG! lol I get to work this morning thinking maybe he sent those emails to me too and I'm reading too much into this, maybe it isn't anything like I think it is. But he didn't send me any of them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have no idea. Oh my gosh...
So for my birthday on Friday S got me a very darling RHR. It was a total surprise and I love it!
After that we are at the Library to pick up some stuff (DVD's & a custom home building book) when S says "hey, I know a book I think you will like" and takes me over to where this said book was. So it's a "How to Buy a Diamond" book. Which is strange because probably a year ago now I showed him a very similar book at the Library and he was disinterested, slighly annoyed. You know the behavior..."Don't talk to me about rings" type attitude lol. Anyway he grabs another book next to it "Engagement and Wedding Rings" and tells me to check them both out to look at.
So yesterday evening he went on the computer at my house and I was talking to him. I was asking him if he was going to be on there very long and he said "Nope, just checking my email" to which he opens his email box and guess what I see? SEVERAL emails sent to himself from himself entitled...
Subject#1: gemstones
Subject#2: gemstones
Subject#3: wedding bands
and then others that said something in reference of how to buy a diamond, with this ring...etc..etc..
He CLICKS out of it super fast as if "Oops! Oh crap!" and I didn't say a word about it.
I have no idea. Oh my gosh...