Hey folks,
I was just wondering whether its either uncommon, unorthodox, not recommended to get engaged and not plan on getting married any time soon? Before you roll your eyes at me I want to clarify that I AM serious about proposing and I''m certain she is too. However this year is going to be crazy hectic for us (graduation, relocating across country for job, and applying to grad school) and I think it would be pretty unrealistic to get married in 2009. Personally I don''t see a problem but when I thought about all my friends who''ve gotten married it was all within 6-9 months from engagement to honeymoon.
Is there a general rule of thumb or am I just psyching myself out?
I was just wondering whether its either uncommon, unorthodox, not recommended to get engaged and not plan on getting married any time soon? Before you roll your eyes at me I want to clarify that I AM serious about proposing and I''m certain she is too. However this year is going to be crazy hectic for us (graduation, relocating across country for job, and applying to grad school) and I think it would be pretty unrealistic to get married in 2009. Personally I don''t see a problem but when I thought about all my friends who''ve gotten married it was all within 6-9 months from engagement to honeymoon.
Is there a general rule of thumb or am I just psyching myself out?