Date: 10/25/2009 7:02:53 PM
Author:cate
Does the officiant have to be invited if it''s just a ceremony followed by a restaurant dinner for bride, groom, and their parents? The officiant is charging $100.
Date: 10/25/2009 11:36:36 PM
Author: ts44
Date: 10/25/2009 7:02:53 PM
Author:cate
Does the officiant have to be invited if it''s just a ceremony followed by a restaurant dinner for bride, groom, and their parents? The officiant is charging $100.
No, if the reception is a small immediate family-only gathering, the officiant is not invited. If the officiant has no connection to the bride and groom other than a monetary transaction, you don''t have to invite them either unless they are traveling a fair distance, because it''s only polite to offer them at least a dinner before they leave.
If you''re having a 300+ person blowout, the more the merrier!
If there are any attorneys in your family, one way to avoid the ''what to do with the officiant'' problem is to have the attorney temporarily granted judicial power for the day to perform the ceremony. I almost did this for my father but instead decided to ask an old family friend who is already a judge to officiate. If you just want an ordained officiant, anybody can be ordained through the Universal Life Church to perform a marriage ceremony.
Smurfy I don''t know the nitty gritty of Emily Post but the old fallback for me has always been that if you do something with grace, humility, and the best interest of the person in question at heart, you never err.Date: 10/26/2009 10:26:26 AM
Author: Smurfyimproved
I have a question, is it ok to invite verbally when we meet with him the thursday before the wedding if we have run out of invitations?