crossmyfingers
Shiny_Rock
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- Aug 10, 2009
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Hey, LIWs! So I ended up getting really upset tonight and pretty much telling BF that I am nervous about how long it will be before we are married and that I feel helpless about waiting on him to propose. I basically told him I feel like I am mostly ready for marriage and that I wish he could come up with a pretty good idea of when he wants to be married.
He says he wants to get married, but says he''s not sure when exactly... He gave me a really broad idea, like, somewhere between Spring 2010 and around Fall 2011. That''s such a huge time frame, and I just wish I had a better idea of when he wants to. My only reasoning for that is that I want to know; neither of us want to have a wedding, just a small ceremony for us and then a party afterward to celebrate with family/friends, so wedding planning is no reason for me to need to know ahead of time.
I hate when I end up telling him things like that. I don''t want to pressure him or rush him at all, but then again, I *hate* sitting around wondering when in the world he will finally propose. We both know it''s what we want, so why not just go ahead and at least propose?
Do your BFs realize that you are driving yourself crazy waiting on them to propose? I don''t at all mean to imply we are all insane, but I assume most of us on the LIW board do wonder quite a bit when our BFs will finally be our FIs.
He says he wants to get married, but says he''s not sure when exactly... He gave me a really broad idea, like, somewhere between Spring 2010 and around Fall 2011. That''s such a huge time frame, and I just wish I had a better idea of when he wants to. My only reasoning for that is that I want to know; neither of us want to have a wedding, just a small ceremony for us and then a party afterward to celebrate with family/friends, so wedding planning is no reason for me to need to know ahead of time.
I hate when I end up telling him things like that. I don''t want to pressure him or rush him at all, but then again, I *hate* sitting around wondering when in the world he will finally propose. We both know it''s what we want, so why not just go ahead and at least propose?
Do your BFs realize that you are driving yourself crazy waiting on them to propose? I don''t at all mean to imply we are all insane, but I assume most of us on the LIW board do wonder quite a bit when our BFs will finally be our FIs.