lilylover
Shiny_Rock
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- Nov 29, 2008
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I just got a text from FI. "I bought a motor for my car today."
Uh, wow.
His car is fine, he owns a sports car and has been wanting to do an engine swap for a while. It''s not like he bought a motor to replace one that wasn''t working.
So, he just spend like 700 something dollars on a motor, and I am sure he bought accesories for it which probably equal a few hundred dollars. He hasn''t fessed up to that yet. Normally this wouldn''t be a big deal, but I just bought my wedding band that was 500 dollars which he has yet to pay me back for. Plus, we agreed to buy a TV and furiture, etc. for our new apartment instead of going on a honeymoon. It was really heartbreaking (silly, I know) for me to decide to put the honeymoon dreams I have had for years aside and decide and focus on the "necessities."
Now I have no idea if we have enough money to safely to buy that TV or furniture. I will say that this IS *all* his money. We have separate accounts still, but heck .. we are getting married in 3 months. I feel like he should have consulted me before doing this and really thought about all the other things we need to pay for, even if it was 100 perent his money.
I am really upset. Am I overreacting?
Uh, wow.
His car is fine, he owns a sports car and has been wanting to do an engine swap for a while. It''s not like he bought a motor to replace one that wasn''t working.
So, he just spend like 700 something dollars on a motor, and I am sure he bought accesories for it which probably equal a few hundred dollars. He hasn''t fessed up to that yet. Normally this wouldn''t be a big deal, but I just bought my wedding band that was 500 dollars which he has yet to pay me back for. Plus, we agreed to buy a TV and furiture, etc. for our new apartment instead of going on a honeymoon. It was really heartbreaking (silly, I know) for me to decide to put the honeymoon dreams I have had for years aside and decide and focus on the "necessities."
Now I have no idea if we have enough money to safely to buy that TV or furniture. I will say that this IS *all* his money. We have separate accounts still, but heck .. we are getting married in 3 months. I feel like he should have consulted me before doing this and really thought about all the other things we need to pay for, even if it was 100 perent his money.
I am really upset. Am I overreacting?