Serious question.
Allow me to explain. I'm a regular poster here, but I need to protect my privacy on this one.
My sister is enrolled in a graduate class that requires her to use software that she can't run on her MacBook. She asks my dad if she can install and run it on his PC laptop, which he allows her to do.
While doing homework, and performing google searches, the google search bar and address bar keep autocompleting to gay **** sites. Lots of them. So, she wonders if this is coincidence, and checks the history, which is full of gay **** sites. I don't know if there were regular **** sites included too, but lots of gay ****, and particularly from a day when he was out of town for business. Right.
She calls me freaking out and disturbed, but wouldn't tell me what. I just didn't want her to feel alone, so I told her she could tell me. Wow, wasn't expecting that. Neither of us know what to think. On one hand, it's my dad's right to watch what he wants to watch. But I think there are implications to this type of behavior. Am I wrong? I don't give a d*mn about my dad's sexual preference, honestly. He's my dad, I love him the same. If he is stepping out with other men (a leap, not sure how big, from just watching gay ****), then I have obvious concerns for my mother. I found this out in October, but hadn't given it much thought since then, My sister recently had a fresh encounter, looked at the history again, and it's consistently the same type of material.
How are you supposed to respond to learning something like this about your parent???
Allow me to explain. I'm a regular poster here, but I need to protect my privacy on this one.
My sister is enrolled in a graduate class that requires her to use software that she can't run on her MacBook. She asks my dad if she can install and run it on his PC laptop, which he allows her to do.
While doing homework, and performing google searches, the google search bar and address bar keep autocompleting to gay **** sites. Lots of them. So, she wonders if this is coincidence, and checks the history, which is full of gay **** sites. I don't know if there were regular **** sites included too, but lots of gay ****, and particularly from a day when he was out of town for business. Right.
She calls me freaking out and disturbed, but wouldn't tell me what. I just didn't want her to feel alone, so I told her she could tell me. Wow, wasn't expecting that. Neither of us know what to think. On one hand, it's my dad's right to watch what he wants to watch. But I think there are implications to this type of behavior. Am I wrong? I don't give a d*mn about my dad's sexual preference, honestly. He's my dad, I love him the same. If he is stepping out with other men (a leap, not sure how big, from just watching gay ****), then I have obvious concerns for my mother. I found this out in October, but hadn't given it much thought since then, My sister recently had a fresh encounter, looked at the history again, and it's consistently the same type of material.
How are you supposed to respond to learning something like this about your parent???