CrazyMaybe
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Feb 10, 2011
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Hi PSers,
I am not sure if you remember me from the "divorce" thread. Well the papers are in the works but lately I have been having some serious doubts about going through with this. I can barely even explain why. I am starting to worry I didn't give it enough time or him another chance once he started taking things seriously. Every time I see him we get along great (which is infrequently). I don't know why it wasn't like that when we were living under the same roof. He seems to be making some major changes in his life to become a better person. I'd like to ask him exactly what changes he is making so I can see if his actions match up to what seems to be going on. But I do not want to give him any type of false hope. I know that he is going through a rough time too and it isn't fair to do that to him.
I also feel ridiculous for having doubts after how poorly he treated me. But he does have many redeeming qualities (obviously) that I do really love. I am not sure if this is just part of the process or a real concern. I also am under an enormous amount of pressure in all areas of my life. Not just my personal life. So maybe that is what is making me question my decision.
Thanks.
CM
I am not sure if you remember me from the "divorce" thread. Well the papers are in the works but lately I have been having some serious doubts about going through with this. I can barely even explain why. I am starting to worry I didn't give it enough time or him another chance once he started taking things seriously. Every time I see him we get along great (which is infrequently). I don't know why it wasn't like that when we were living under the same roof. He seems to be making some major changes in his life to become a better person. I'd like to ask him exactly what changes he is making so I can see if his actions match up to what seems to be going on. But I do not want to give him any type of false hope. I know that he is going through a rough time too and it isn't fair to do that to him.
I also feel ridiculous for having doubts after how poorly he treated me. But he does have many redeeming qualities (obviously) that I do really love. I am not sure if this is just part of the process or a real concern. I also am under an enormous amount of pressure in all areas of my life. Not just my personal life. So maybe that is what is making me question my decision.
Thanks.
CM