SarahLovesJS
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So my FI doesn''t ask for a lot..he''s one of those guys that just goes with the flow and occasionally sees a book or video game or something he wants. He drives the older car..wears clothes until they fall apart, etc. He''s been waiting for this video game for years *literally years* and it finally came out..and it won''t work on his computer. He has a nice computer his parents bought while he was in college and a decent (albeit becoming dated) graphics card. Looks like he''s gone through every option out there according to Alienware and to the game tech support. I just feel so horrible for him..it installed seamlessly on my computer since it''s only months old..but apparently won''t work on his for some random reason (the only reason he could get out of them was that it might be because it''s a notebook chipset and they didn''t test that). He insists I play this game..and I want to..but I feel like I took something from him or something. It''s like getting someone else''s Christmas present. And now..he''s not happy with his computer anymore and desperately trying to figure out how to afford another one since his computer must be old and crappy if it won''t run this. *sigh* And there''s no way we can afford that unless he gets a promotion (not sure if he''s been there long enough) or put off the honeymoon (he refuses to do that for a new computer..thank God). And of course all of his friends can play just fine. Sorry if this seems insignificant to some of you..it is in all reality..I just hate seeming him sad even if it is about something little in the big scheme of things. Not to mention we have to figure out a way to get our money back since we don''t have any money to waste. I have a surprise b-day party planned for him in a few weeks, but I need some way to make him feel better now, any advice?
How do you deal and cope with disappointment?
What cheers you up?
How do you deal and cope with disappointment?
What cheers you up?