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Now Cosmo has picked up the story: https://www.yahoo.com/style/expensive-engagement-rings-lead-to-divorce-99578482012.html
I still say they are drawing erroneous conclusions. Other studies ages ago found that couples who essentially grew up together in the same town and married relatively young had the most lasting marriages. And that couples who grew up in different geographical areas and different cultures, married later, and/or had children from previous marriages or relationships are much more likely to divorce. To me, it's not the cost of the ring. It's the fact that older and more established persons buy bigger and more expensive rings as a rule. And being "set in your ways" (I HATE that cliche, hahahaha!) and/or liking yourself and your lifestyle as-is makes it harder or possibly even less rewarding for a person to change enough to make a marriage succeed. There are such things as amicable divorces, where both partners agree that they don't want to be married to each other anymore.
And I'll be the first to say that receiving a fantastic diamond e-ring from a guy who treats me poorly would never be compensation enough to remain in a bad or toxic relationship.
I still say they are drawing erroneous conclusions. Other studies ages ago found that couples who essentially grew up together in the same town and married relatively young had the most lasting marriages. And that couples who grew up in different geographical areas and different cultures, married later, and/or had children from previous marriages or relationships are much more likely to divorce. To me, it's not the cost of the ring. It's the fact that older and more established persons buy bigger and more expensive rings as a rule. And being "set in your ways" (I HATE that cliche, hahahaha!) and/or liking yourself and your lifestyle as-is makes it harder or possibly even less rewarding for a person to change enough to make a marriage succeed. There are such things as amicable divorces, where both partners agree that they don't want to be married to each other anymore.
And I'll be the first to say that receiving a fantastic diamond e-ring from a guy who treats me poorly would never be compensation enough to remain in a bad or toxic relationship.