mia1181
Brilliant_Rock
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Yesterday we were out to lunch and I was rambling on about what "we" still have to do and we are nearing 3 months until we elope. He was politely nodding away when I brought up that I would like to sleep apart the night before for tradition. I told him if I got a hotel room in the city, it would make it convenient to get my hair and makeup done before going to City Hall. He made a comment like "wow you''re trying to spend all our money before we even get to the honeymoon." He said it in a joking way and immediately tried to play it off like he was just joking, but I could tell he really meant it.
So then I said "Well it has to be special we only have one wedding day." Okay, so I could tell he was concerned about money so I said I would stay with my friend outside of the city the night before. So then I brought up the Carnelian room for dinner. I picked it for HIM because he loves skylines, and it has a great view. He said he didn''t want to go anywhere expensive for dinner. We both love to go out to eat in SF we go to nice restaurants all the time, why wouldn''t we go somewhere nice for dinner after we get MARRIED? Then, I asked him what he wants to do around the city afterwards. He said we should just go home and rest for the honeymoon. We don''t leave until the next night and we are getting married at noon, with pictures until 2! WTF?
I know two things are going on here 1. Concern about money. Even though we are eloping the costs are adding up since we''ve hired a photographer to shoot us. And 2. He is more excited about the honeymoon since we''re spending a lot on it and he got to plan it all by himself and it will be a surprise to me.
But really, why isn''t he excited about our wedding day? It''s so weird and it''s made me sad
Well gotta go....Thanks for the vent.... he just walked in and I feel guilty "talking about him" while he''s in the room!
So then I said "Well it has to be special we only have one wedding day." Okay, so I could tell he was concerned about money so I said I would stay with my friend outside of the city the night before. So then I brought up the Carnelian room for dinner. I picked it for HIM because he loves skylines, and it has a great view. He said he didn''t want to go anywhere expensive for dinner. We both love to go out to eat in SF we go to nice restaurants all the time, why wouldn''t we go somewhere nice for dinner after we get MARRIED? Then, I asked him what he wants to do around the city afterwards. He said we should just go home and rest for the honeymoon. We don''t leave until the next night and we are getting married at noon, with pictures until 2! WTF?
I know two things are going on here 1. Concern about money. Even though we are eloping the costs are adding up since we''ve hired a photographer to shoot us. And 2. He is more excited about the honeymoon since we''re spending a lot on it and he got to plan it all by himself and it will be a surprise to me.
But really, why isn''t he excited about our wedding day? It''s so weird and it''s made me sad
Well gotta go....Thanks for the vent.... he just walked in and I feel guilty "talking about him" while he''s in the room!