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I attended a wedding over the weekend and the bridal shower was held the night before the wedding. Theshower was hosted by the brides sister, the matron of honor. I was a bridesmaid but not asked to help with the costs or planning of the shower. It was held at a restaurant and the guests were all relatives of the bride and groom (except me although the bride is like a sister to me). The shower was nice and everyone enjoyed it.
The day of the wedding I was helping the bride and her mom with last minute details and heard them talking. They were upset that none of the guests paid for their meal before leaving (including me). I started to feel really bad that I hadn''t paid for my meal. I didn''t order anything expensive and drank water thinking I was being mindful of the bill. But I felt awful.
Then I got to thinking...is it common to pay your way at a bridal shower? I have never had to pay as a guest at one before. So I doubt people were being rude by not paying the bill it probably didn''t cross anyones mind to do so.
The invitations had the location of the restaraunt, an RSVP and to bring a gift.
Were the guests, I included, rude to not pay for the meal? or was it a result of miscommunication?
The day of the wedding I was helping the bride and her mom with last minute details and heard them talking. They were upset that none of the guests paid for their meal before leaving (including me). I started to feel really bad that I hadn''t paid for my meal. I didn''t order anything expensive and drank water thinking I was being mindful of the bill. But I felt awful.
Then I got to thinking...is it common to pay your way at a bridal shower? I have never had to pay as a guest at one before. So I doubt people were being rude by not paying the bill it probably didn''t cross anyones mind to do so.
The invitations had the location of the restaraunt, an RSVP and to bring a gift.
Were the guests, I included, rude to not pay for the meal? or was it a result of miscommunication?