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FI and I want to start trying in a couple of years (ideally have our first at 26-27). My mother had difficulties conceiving and I don't want to tempt biology
I used to worry about the finances of having a child 'soon', now I'm honestly more concerned about the mindset. Someone told me that she wished her husband would understand that she was a mother to their son first and foremost... if I wait to mature into that mindset we'll never have children, because I can't see myself ever feeling that way.
I used to worry about the finances of having a child 'soon', now I'm honestly more concerned about the mindset. Someone told me that she wished her husband would understand that she was a mother to their son first and foremost... if I wait to mature into that mindset we'll never have children, because I can't see myself ever feeling that way.