lala2332
Brilliant_Rock
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- Jul 15, 2008
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FI and I were planning a joint bachelor/bachelorette party in vegas b/c all of our law school friends are joint friends and it just seemed fun to celebrate with both. Well, I sent out an email inviting about 12 girls, and so far 1 can come, 1 is a maybe, 6 can''t come, and I haven''t heard from 5. And out of that 5, I see 2 of them every day and they haven''t said anything. Granted one of them is the lovely friend that acted like a crazy person around graduation. (thread here: https://www.pricescope.com/community/threads/friend-bm-drama-long-story-sorry.116788/ )
I 100% understand about economy and other various factors: school, babies, work. FI''s friends are all making it work though, so it just makes me kind of sad that my friends can''t. I don''t know if I should try again with something less ambitious...maybe my parent''s beach house, or if I should just go with the one that can go and maybe the other few will end of coming. I hate to not celebrate with my guy friend''s from law school, but I feel a little embarassed that FI will have 20 guys there and I will have 3-4 girls max.
I think guys are maybe better about expecting and going to bachelor parties. I don''t know. I''m not having any showers, which I feel like is usually when girls do something.
any advice on how to re-group and try again, call it quits, or just go to vegas and have fun anyway?
I 100% understand about economy and other various factors: school, babies, work. FI''s friends are all making it work though, so it just makes me kind of sad that my friends can''t. I don''t know if I should try again with something less ambitious...maybe my parent''s beach house, or if I should just go with the one that can go and maybe the other few will end of coming. I hate to not celebrate with my guy friend''s from law school, but I feel a little embarassed that FI will have 20 guys there and I will have 3-4 girls max.
I think guys are maybe better about expecting and going to bachelor parties. I don''t know. I''m not having any showers, which I feel like is usually when girls do something.
any advice on how to re-group and try again, call it quits, or just go to vegas and have fun anyway?