I did cry! I don''t usually read articles like that because they upset me now. My heart just breaks for the girl and her family. I would want to strangle all those kids myself. At least though, I believe in the concept of forgiveness. TGuy would be angry for the rest of his life, and it would eat him alive.Date: 10/27/2009 10:56:14 PM
Author: packrat
That article gives me the shivers Tgal, and makes me want to cry..that poor girl, I feel for her. I''m stunned that kids think it''s ok and watched and did nothing.
I look at my little girls face, and even just to think ''what if'' makes me light headed and want to vomit. It makes my brain feel like it''s twisting in my skull, trying to fathom how anyone could treat a child the way we read about on the internet and in the papers.
I want my kids to be independent, yes, but..*if* something happened, I could never forgive myself. She''s stuck with me. And her large dad. Sometimes I think people are lulled into a false sense of security..bad things happen to ''other'' people, it''s a small town, it''s a nice neighborhood etc. I don''t think kids need to be in a bubble or anything..but what can a little kid do against an adult, really?
Is it too crazy to keep my kid at home for the rest of her life? I can also bring back the idea of an arranged marriage if she really has to find a partner.Date: 10/28/2009 12:29:38 AM
Author: miraclesrule
When my nephew was 12 he was jumped by a gang of boys from 12-14 because they wanted to steal his bike. It was on the corner five houses down from my sister. He was at the door and my sister saw him and practically died from the sight.
He now has seizures as a result. I just don''t know and why these things happen. It''s one of the reasons I am on the board of a non-profit for kids and try to teach non-violence. It''s just not necessary. If I think of it too much, I too...cry.
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Date: 10/28/2009 12:40:53 AM
Author: TravelingGal
Is it too crazy to keep my kid at home for the rest of her life? I can also bring back the idea of an arranged marriage if she really has to find a partner.Date: 10/28/2009 12:29:38 AM
Author: miraclesrule
When my nephew was 12 he was jumped by a gang of boys from 12-14 because they wanted to steal his bike. It was on the corner five houses down from my sister. He was at the door and my sister saw him and practically died from the sight.
He now has seizures as a result. I just don''t know and why these things happen. It''s one of the reasons I am on the board of a non-profit for kids and try to teach non-violence. It''s just not necessary. If I think of it too much, I too...cry.
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Date: 10/28/2009 8:32:10 PM
Author: packrat
They do it here all the time and nothing has ever happened, ever, as far as I know. But that doesn''t mean it won''t, and I don''t want to be the parent sobbing on tv that she was *only* walking 2 blocks and she *knows* not to talk to strangers and this is such a small community, things like this just *don''t* happen.
Not too far from here, a 3 year old girl was raped and strangled. In her house. In her bed. While her dad slept in the next room and her mom was up nursing the baby. The guy came in thru the child''s unlocked bedroom window. The guy who did it was someone they knew, and knew routines, etc. But they felt safe. This is in a larger city than ours, but still in a Midwestern area where things *don''t* happen. But they can, and they do, we just don''t like to think it.
Wasn''t that child who was abducted years ago who they just now found, abducted right in front of her step dad or something??
I realize there aren''t boogeymen hiding behind every bush waiting to snatch my children. But unfortunately, those boogeymen do exist, and I just prefer to err on the side of caution. Kids can certainly be independent and still be walked to school, or whatever the case may be. Kids don''t have adult defenses. Kids are trusting by nature, and there are people who will take advantage of that.
We have a ''treatment'' center for men who''ve taken advantage of childrens trusting nature right here in my town. It''s encircled by barbed wire and electric fences. And it''s so full we turn other wastes of the human species away b/c there are so many. And every single one of those men left behind parents saying ''But it was only 2 blocks'' or ''But we live in such a small town'' or ''But my child knows not to talk to strangers'' or ''But that would never happen to my child''.