Ok, so no matter which option I choose (see my poll), I need to ask the parents for their blessing during the Thanksgiving holiday or the day after. The only problem is getting them alone without her knowing. I''m not worried about their reaction because it will be a resounding YES, but I am worried about her finding out. How do I pull this off? Any diversions that have worked in the past? Do I involve her siblings or other relatives? Do I fake sickness?
I should mention that I know she prefers that I ask for her parents'' blessings and that we both live about 1,500 miles away from her parents so there''s not really a chance to do this in person before the holiday.
I should mention that I know she prefers that I ask for her parents'' blessings and that we both live about 1,500 miles away from her parents so there''s not really a chance to do this in person before the holiday.