fieryred33143
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I know there''s been threads about it and in almost every thread involving couple issues, someone will suggest couples counseling. But has anyone here ever really tried it? Did you find it effective or all just a bunch of fluff? You don''t have to go into details because I know that''s personal. I just want to know if you felt it helped.
My FI and I are having some issues. Nothing major but we''re both holding back on saying what''s really bothering us out of fear of how the other will take it. I feel that with a mediator, we can resolve and move past it. We''ve always been good communicators with each other in the past but there''s something off with us. I have been turned off by couples counseling cause I think its a waste of money...but if I can throw $200 towards a handbag and he can throw money towards music equipment then we should be able to invest money into us
Anyway, I took the plunge and called for an appointment with a couples counselor. I was very proud of myself for feeling empowered and making that first step...until they told me they had to call back with a representative for more details. Now I''m going back into thinking if its really even worth it.
My FI and I are having some issues. Nothing major but we''re both holding back on saying what''s really bothering us out of fear of how the other will take it. I feel that with a mediator, we can resolve and move past it. We''ve always been good communicators with each other in the past but there''s something off with us. I have been turned off by couples counseling cause I think its a waste of money...but if I can throw $200 towards a handbag and he can throw money towards music equipment then we should be able to invest money into us
Anyway, I took the plunge and called for an appointment with a couples counselor. I was very proud of myself for feeling empowered and making that first step...until they told me they had to call back with a representative for more details. Now I''m going back into thinking if its really even worth it.