Abby12|1346459344|3260656 said:Oh no i never got a ring from him! I just meant if i ever chiose to buy myself one.
I do not want anyone else, trust me 2 divorces at age 35 and i feel like a loser.
Abby12|1346459344|3260656 said:Oh no i never got a ring from him! I just meant if i ever chiose to buy myself one.
I do not want anyone else, trust me 2 divorces at age 35 and i feel like a loser.
Enerchi|1346461130|3260681 said:Now - buying a ring? - you go girl!!! Sure - treat yourself to something amazing, just like rubybeth said- a FREEDOM ring!! Wear it thru your nose if you feel like it! (ok, just kidding on that one!) but I also agree, not to get to 'engagement-y' with your setting style. Try something out of your comfort zone, perhaps, since... you are kind of being forced out of your comfort zone already... or not...whatever appeals to you
purplesilk|1346481232|3260778 said:Buy what ever makes you happy: an engagement style ring, a three stone ring or even a wedding band...I know plenty women who wear a ring on their left finger just because they like it, no matter their marital status...
kenny|1346538318|3261030 said:One downside of continuing to wear a ring on that "ring" finger is the future guy of your dreams may not strike up that first conversation with you.
Abby12|1346534066|3261019 said:Seriously thanks to everyone! Although i do not know you, getting these messages gives me hope. Sometimes it is the things we hear from perfect strangers that help the most. This will be a very emotional time for me as i was so devoted to this person and making things work. When really awful things arose, i should have walked at that time, but i guess because i was married i wanted to try really hard.
The way i have been spoken to and treated, i feel shame, yet i know i deserve better. Hopefully we can agree on things and both move on. I am not meant to be married or have a child and that is ok.
Thanks to all of you for your supporting, kind words.
And girl, it's not only diamonds you can get on your own. You can have kids on your own too. It's more expensive and more work, but if you really want a kid, go for it. The husband can come later. I know several people who have done things that way and had everything work out perfectly, if not the way they expected things too. Basically, whether diamonds or children, don't wait around for a man to get it if it's something you really want and you have the resources.