merilenda
Brilliant_Rock
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- Apr 20, 2010
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Hi, ladies! Okay, I mentioned that I''m having a slight crisis about rings. I could really use some input, because I am definitely feeling overwhelmed.
Here''s the story: I''ve always been in love with princess cut diamonds. I just knew that was what I wanted for my e-ring and didn''t think about other options. Well, FF''s family mentioned to him that they have some diamonds/rings that we can use for my ring, which would save us from buying a center stone. There was a round cut and an emerald cut potentially available (both in the 1 ct. neighborhood).
It took me a little while to get over my princess-lust, but I started to fall for round cuts. I tried some on, and I really really love them! I found the perfect setting at a B&M store, and it was just a matter of looking around to see if we could get a similar setting for a better deal.
Here comes the wrench! FF''s dad can''t find the ring (with the round) that he was going to give us. This was really disappointing for me, because I fell in love with the look - a simple setting with a 2.5mm shank and prong-set melee.
So now we''re "left" with the EC. Let me just say that I think EC diamonds are lovely, and I don''t want to offend anyone who has one! But we''re talking about me finding "the" ring. I''ve combed through PS looking for settings with EC center stones. And I just cannot find anything that I love or that really speaks to me. And I don''t know what to do. FF is getting frustrated because his whole family keeps congratulating us on our "engagement" although we''re not actually engaged yet. And he feels like we''re in limbo. So he''s kind of wanting me to pick a setting so he can get the process started.
I thought LIW might be a great place for advice on this. I should mention that our finances are pretty limited right now since we''re in that transitional period between school and career. Should I keep looking for settings for the EC and find something I at least like even though it''s not "the one?" Maybe we can pick out what I really want when things are more financially stable, but I hate to take a family heirloom (it''s currently set in a ring, so we''d have to remove it) for a year or two and then be like "thanks, but I''m done with this now!"
Should I tell FF that I would prefer to pick out a RB stone with our available budget and then set it as a simple solitaire until we can afford to upgrade the setting? In terms of monetary value, what we could afford we be much less than the EC available (I think because FF isn''t into this stuff, he won''t understand why I wouldn''t want to take the more valuable stone).
I''ve rambled on for WAY too long now. I admit that I''m ever-so-slightly obsessing about this, so I hope you ladies understand. I feel like there''s just so many factors involved in this situation! Oh and obviously, if you have any settings that you think would be just perfect for the EC diamond, definitely post them. I''m hoping I fall in love with something.
Here''s the story: I''ve always been in love with princess cut diamonds. I just knew that was what I wanted for my e-ring and didn''t think about other options. Well, FF''s family mentioned to him that they have some diamonds/rings that we can use for my ring, which would save us from buying a center stone. There was a round cut and an emerald cut potentially available (both in the 1 ct. neighborhood).
It took me a little while to get over my princess-lust, but I started to fall for round cuts. I tried some on, and I really really love them! I found the perfect setting at a B&M store, and it was just a matter of looking around to see if we could get a similar setting for a better deal.
Here comes the wrench! FF''s dad can''t find the ring (with the round) that he was going to give us. This was really disappointing for me, because I fell in love with the look - a simple setting with a 2.5mm shank and prong-set melee.
So now we''re "left" with the EC. Let me just say that I think EC diamonds are lovely, and I don''t want to offend anyone who has one! But we''re talking about me finding "the" ring. I''ve combed through PS looking for settings with EC center stones. And I just cannot find anything that I love or that really speaks to me. And I don''t know what to do. FF is getting frustrated because his whole family keeps congratulating us on our "engagement" although we''re not actually engaged yet. And he feels like we''re in limbo. So he''s kind of wanting me to pick a setting so he can get the process started.
I thought LIW might be a great place for advice on this. I should mention that our finances are pretty limited right now since we''re in that transitional period between school and career. Should I keep looking for settings for the EC and find something I at least like even though it''s not "the one?" Maybe we can pick out what I really want when things are more financially stable, but I hate to take a family heirloom (it''s currently set in a ring, so we''d have to remove it) for a year or two and then be like "thanks, but I''m done with this now!"
Should I tell FF that I would prefer to pick out a RB stone with our available budget and then set it as a simple solitaire until we can afford to upgrade the setting? In terms of monetary value, what we could afford we be much less than the EC available (I think because FF isn''t into this stuff, he won''t understand why I wouldn''t want to take the more valuable stone).
I''ve rambled on for WAY too long now. I admit that I''m ever-so-slightly obsessing about this, so I hope you ladies understand. I feel like there''s just so many factors involved in this situation! Oh and obviously, if you have any settings that you think would be just perfect for the EC diamond, definitely post them. I''m hoping I fall in love with something.