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Ideal_Rock
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Is there a such thing as ''overscheduled'' when you go to a wedding? Say you''re flying to a new city for a weekend for a wedding, and the couple says "Here''s a schedule of optional activities we''ve planned!" do you then feel annoyed and ''obligated'' to do all this stuff when maybe you just want to sight-see? Or are you grateful that you don''t have to think much if you don''t want to?
We''ve arranged a guided tour of a museum (the morning of the wedding) and for the day before, a tour of an interesting and important local building, followed by some hiking in a nearby forest, with a scotch tasting that evening. That will make for two pretty packed days. We don''t want anyone to feel obliged to do any of this. Although we do hope our friends will join us!
Would you, as wedding guests, feel obliged? Or grateful?
help?
We''ve arranged a guided tour of a museum (the morning of the wedding) and for the day before, a tour of an interesting and important local building, followed by some hiking in a nearby forest, with a scotch tasting that evening. That will make for two pretty packed days. We don''t want anyone to feel obliged to do any of this. Although we do hope our friends will join us!
Would you, as wedding guests, feel obliged? Or grateful?
help?