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This has been touched on a number of times in different threads.
A part of getting older and growing up and becoming an adult and growing as an adult is acceptance. Acceptance of things we cannot change. Acceptance of things beyond our control. Acceptance of unpleasant facts and experiences. And so on and so forth.
Just today I have been thinking about this. Thinking about how hard it can be to just accept certain things in one's life and even in other's lives. Our loved ones for whom we wish only good things but we know life doesn't work like that. There is not just the good. There is the bad and all the stuff in between.
That oft used quote "grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference" comes to mind of course. But it's easier said (written) than done. Truth be told.
What are your thoughts? What unpleasant (if you wish to share) experiences/facts have you made peace with in life? And what have you been able to change that you thought at first was not possible?
A part of getting older and growing up and becoming an adult and growing as an adult is acceptance. Acceptance of things we cannot change. Acceptance of things beyond our control. Acceptance of unpleasant facts and experiences. And so on and so forth.
Just today I have been thinking about this. Thinking about how hard it can be to just accept certain things in one's life and even in other's lives. Our loved ones for whom we wish only good things but we know life doesn't work like that. There is not just the good. There is the bad and all the stuff in between.
That oft used quote "grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference" comes to mind of course. But it's easier said (written) than done. Truth be told.
What are your thoughts? What unpleasant (if you wish to share) experiences/facts have you made peace with in life? And what have you been able to change that you thought at first was not possible?