sunsetstar
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Jul 28, 2006
- Messages
- 21
Hi everyone !
I''m really upset! I got engaged the 30th of july, and it was the happiest day of my life. I love my husband to be more than I''ve ever loved any man in my life. He is my life ,but Ive noticed that my friends have been acting differently with me. It kills me ,because I can feel the jealous and its ruining everything. They make wise cracks, and hurt my feelings. My family and fiance say this is your time, and dont let them ruin it, but they really are, and for the first time in my life im questioning their true friendship after so many years. I am the youngest out of all of them. They all live with there boyfriends, and even have children from either them or a previous relationship. I guess they dont see engagement in site. I on the other hand am 24 no children, dont live with my fiance, and dont know how to cook. But I guess we found eachother and I found an amazing man.
In the end I just wish they were genuinely happy for me. But I feel that they are not. I feel a distance coming between us, and it hurt because I never thought my happiness would truly bother them. I''m in a situation where they have to step to the plate, and show me if they are going to be here for all the madness thats ahead, and it kills me to have to wonder. I''m going thur this alone, because my parents moved from brooklyn to arizona. I really wish they were here. I guess friends are not forever, but husbands are. I never felt so close to a man like I do with alex. He is a blessing, and is trying his best to help me thur this. But im so hurt and angry.
Is there anything I can do ? to feel better ? will this pass? is this normal ? has this happened to anyone and have gotten passed it ?
I''m really upset! I got engaged the 30th of july, and it was the happiest day of my life. I love my husband to be more than I''ve ever loved any man in my life. He is my life ,but Ive noticed that my friends have been acting differently with me. It kills me ,because I can feel the jealous and its ruining everything. They make wise cracks, and hurt my feelings. My family and fiance say this is your time, and dont let them ruin it, but they really are, and for the first time in my life im questioning their true friendship after so many years. I am the youngest out of all of them. They all live with there boyfriends, and even have children from either them or a previous relationship. I guess they dont see engagement in site. I on the other hand am 24 no children, dont live with my fiance, and dont know how to cook. But I guess we found eachother and I found an amazing man.
In the end I just wish they were genuinely happy for me. But I feel that they are not. I feel a distance coming between us, and it hurt because I never thought my happiness would truly bother them. I''m in a situation where they have to step to the plate, and show me if they are going to be here for all the madness thats ahead, and it kills me to have to wonder. I''m going thur this alone, because my parents moved from brooklyn to arizona. I really wish they were here. I guess friends are not forever, but husbands are. I never felt so close to a man like I do with alex. He is a blessing, and is trying his best to help me thur this. But im so hurt and angry.
Is there anything I can do ? to feel better ? will this pass? is this normal ? has this happened to anyone and have gotten passed it ?