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So, what happened?!
therainbowradish|1435644697|3896666 said:Turns out the message was simply asking me to call him. I want everything in writing though. He never said the deposit was nonrefundable. It was a lot of money and I want it back. He has not responded to my email requesting confirmation that the refund has been submitted.
My bank said they were happy to help but it will require a police report. Ideas?
therainbowradish|1435644697|3896666 said:Turns out the message was simply asking me to call him. I want everything in writing though. He never said the deposit was nonrefundable. It was a lot of money and I want it back. He has not responded to my email requesting confirmation that the refund has been submitted.
My bank said they were happy to help but it will require a police report. Ideas?
therainbowradish|1435681405|3896847 said:Yes DiamondSeeker, what I meant to say was "other ideas?" As I don't want to file a police report. I am giving him the benefit of the doubt but there were multiple instances where he, in my honest opinion, should have realized that I thought he was David Klass. Like when I called and asked if I was speaking speak with David Klass and he said yes.... Anyway, I'm not witch hunt, I would like my deposit back. I do believe I was mislead and I do not believe this was all my mistake, that's how I feel, but I am hopeful he refunds me with no issues.
therainbowradish said:Turns out the message was simply asking me to call him. I want everything in writing though. He never said the deposit was nonrefundable. It was a lot of money and I want it back. He has not responded to my email requesting confirmation that the refund has been submitted.
My bank said they were happy to help but it will require a police report. Ideas?
doberman|1435692147|3896940 said:I don't think that assigning blame for the mistake is productive. Call him back, apologize for the mix-up and ask for a refund.
therainbowradish|1435723612|3897185 said:Hi all, thanks for all the comments. I will update once it is resolved.
Out of curiosity, some of you have said I should compensate him, so if that is true how do you determine what he would be entitled to? He received the stone thursday, I showed him the design I wanted, we had 2-3 phone calls, I gave him a deposit on friday and then told him to stop work the next day. No CAD was done. So please tell me how to determine what he is owed? I'm being sincere. I don't like confrontation and am trying to settle this apologetically. I am not a jerk, I assure you.
Chrono|1435752862|3897301 said:Instead of worrying about it here, just call him already! Nothing will move forward until you start direct communication, of which emails is generally the slowest form of communication for most businesses. Make sure to speak to him personally.