feeling down.

[Niel]

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Niel how ya doing kiddo?

Thanks guys. I'm doing fine. I won't get to go to the high risk doctor til sept 17, I guess they want t to give it time to see if it fixes itself, then from what the doctor said they usually advise a week after still on BR, even if it did get obsorbed. But well see, maybe they'll let me off it right then. My boss said the job I was up for hasn't had hirings yes, and probably won't till the end of sept, so if I get to go back to work then, that would be great, but I don't want to get my hopes up.

I feel bad for my DD, She has to stay home with me, and I can't take her out to play or anything. She's so active and still very rebellious, so I'd have to run around and chase her, which I really can't do. So she's getting just as stir crazy. I think I'm going to have her spend the night at her g'parents some time this week just so she can be a kid and have fun lol.

 

[Calliecake]

Niel, Are there other moms in your neighborhood that you are friendly with? It would be nice if your daughter could play with other children for a few hours. That would also work out well for you because she'd be exhausted when she came home. Where do they get all the energy? The reason I ask is there was a woman In a similar situation where I used to live. The stay at home moms took turns watching her son on weekdays. It worked out wonderful for the mom on bed rest. The husband dropped the child off every morning and picked him up on his way home from work. Her child seemed to adjust well to the situation. The stay at home moms each had him one day a week so it wasn't a big deal for the moms.

 

[sarahb]

Neil! So sorry to read this thread--we've been crazed getting our college freshman ready, & then orientation this weekend.

As one who has had multiple health issues: hang in there, this too shall pass. Try not to let yourself get down, it's work to keep your spirits up--but in just a few short months this will resolve itself. I always think how fortunate I am that 'this' is what it is, there are always worst possible scenarios.

You are in the good ol US with the best possible health care. The exact day to day circumstances are stinky, but it's resolving itself. DD will survive, although an active 2 yr old is probably the worst possible scenarios I'd want right at this moment!! Oh my word--I can only imagine. So sorry!

The Job situation is a disappointment, & but you've taken action to demonstrate interest etc. You are 'doing' the best you can do, nothing to regret later.

Just be calm, & find a good book, TV series, or knit maybe? I don't know what your interests are, but find the upside in your present situation of inactivity. Find the 'good', it's there. I just wish you weren't going through this!!

You have the love & support of family, & obviously your PS family I hope you can rest easy. Hang in there sister in bling! Keep posting & talking to us! Everyone is pulling for you!

 

[Niel]

Neil! So sorry to read this thread--we've been crazed getting our college freshman ready, & then orientation this weekend.

As one who has had multiple health issues: hang in there, this too shall pass. Try not to let yourself get down, it's work to keep your spirits up--but in just a few short months this will resolve itself. I always think how fortunate I am that 'this' is what it is, there are always worst possible scenarios.

You are in the good ol US with the best possible health care. The exact day to day circumstances are stinky, but it's resolving itself. DD will survive, although an active 2 yr old is probably the worst possible scenarios I'd want right at this moment!! Oh my word--I can only imagine. So sorry!

The Job situation is a disappointment, & but you've taken action to demonstrate interest etc. You are 'doing' the best you can do, nothing to regret later.

Just be calm, & find a good book, TV series, or knit maybe? I don't know what your interests are, but find the upside in your present situation of inactivity. Find the 'good', it's there. I just wish you weren't going through this!!

You have the love & support of family, & obviously your PS family I hope you can rest easy. Hang in there sister in bling! Keep posting & talking to us! Everyone is pulling for you!

Right. And I feel like I'm lucky to live very near a place with lots of great docs and specialist-if it doesn't get better quickly,at least I have that!

 

[sarahb]

Neil, how are you doing today? Just thought I'd check in--hopefully you are resting ok! It looks to be a pretty day outside, I haven't made it out there yet

Sending you healing thoughts

 

[redwood66]

Neil I am so sorry. My best wishes go out to you.

 

[JaneSmith]

Niel, I'm so sorry all this is happening to you. Hugs.

 

[Candygrl]

How are you feeling?

 

[Niel]

Hwy guys sorry for not updating.

For the most part I feel fine, normal- just pregnant. But sometimes I don't. Just enough to make me think my issue isn't "clearing up on its own" like they think. But I'm staying positive and hopefully be back to work at the end of the month.

Otherwise no news. The doctor won't see me until 9-17 because I guess my body needs a month for it to have any sort of real impact on the situation. If I saw them any sooner it would be too soon to make any accurate assessment, if you get me.

They are making decisions about the other position at my work this week, trying not to think about that though

 

[diamondseeker2006]

Hope you'll continue to improve, Niel! Take care!

 

[Calliecake]

Niel, Please try to just concentrate on you and the baby. I've wanted to reach out to you but I am not sure if you would rather not talk about it. Please know I've thought of you often and wish you well. I always take it as a good sign when I see you helping everyone in Rockytalk. You have quite the fan base my dear!