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Brilliant_Rock
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DH and I have been married for 13 years and are the happiest people we know, both in our marriage and in ourselves. When we married we had nothing, so a prenup was not a consideration. 13 years later our circumstances have changed considerably and as of next year are going to change considerably again. Things have never been better.
Unfortunately, we are also reaching a point in our lives where divorces are happening among our friends. Some really emotionally and financially devastating divorces. It's prompting DH and I to discuss "what if" that ever happened to us. If we did divorce, I live in a community property, non alimony, state. DH also owns his own business which I cannot legally own. I feel that the nature of our financial situation would make community property and even child support not clear cut. I am thinking that we should consult our attorney to see if a post nup would be in our best interest.
Has anyone ever done a post nup? Was it effective if you did divorce? Did you tell friends and family (I'm thinking that this is a. None of their business, and b. Not a good idea).
Pros, cons, and any experiences would be welcome.
Unfortunately, we are also reaching a point in our lives where divorces are happening among our friends. Some really emotionally and financially devastating divorces. It's prompting DH and I to discuss "what if" that ever happened to us. If we did divorce, I live in a community property, non alimony, state. DH also owns his own business which I cannot legally own. I feel that the nature of our financial situation would make community property and even child support not clear cut. I am thinking that we should consult our attorney to see if a post nup would be in our best interest.
Has anyone ever done a post nup? Was it effective if you did divorce? Did you tell friends and family (I'm thinking that this is a. None of their business, and b. Not a good idea).
Pros, cons, and any experiences would be welcome.