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So I have been thinking about why I keep thinking about an upgrade, when I just upgraded a little over a year ago. From a non-PS standpoint, my 2.59 is big. Many people who see it call it huge. When I look at it, it looks fine, a little small even. And, I know that is NOT true. I went from a 1.1 to a 2.59. That was a big jump, from a numbers standpoint. If I compare the two, yes, the 2.59 looks a lot bigger. When I put it on, it doesn't look big. It looks decent sized, but NOT big.
I am trying to get myself ok, to look at my ring and see a big rock. I've read so many posts on DSS, strategies to combat it, etc. But for me, I think I have diamond dismorphic disorder. Have you all heard of Body Dismorphic Disorder? It's something that afflicts people with eating disorders. Ask.com definition: "Those who suffer from the disorder have a distorted view of their own bodies." I have a distorted view of my own lovely little stone. I am not calling it DSS because my diamond is not actually shrinking. It's me and I don't want to let DDD win.
I don't have unlimited funds, and I can't afford to go just spend $20K on an upgrade whenever DDD hits, which is most of the time. I want to learn to be happy and content with what I have. I honestly love my stone. It is exactly everything I have always wanted. There is always something more beautiful, bigger, brighter, sparklier, and I seriously cannot keep chasing after all of them. So my only solution at this time, is to get ok with it, not buy other band, bling, reset, to combat it. We'll see how I am doing in a month. OMG...
Anyhoo, this has been plaguing me, and I just thought I would share. Don't know why, but that felt like going to confession. (I don't actually, but if I did, that is probably what I would say. )
I am trying to get myself ok, to look at my ring and see a big rock. I've read so many posts on DSS, strategies to combat it, etc. But for me, I think I have diamond dismorphic disorder. Have you all heard of Body Dismorphic Disorder? It's something that afflicts people with eating disorders. Ask.com definition: "Those who suffer from the disorder have a distorted view of their own bodies." I have a distorted view of my own lovely little stone. I am not calling it DSS because my diamond is not actually shrinking. It's me and I don't want to let DDD win.
I don't have unlimited funds, and I can't afford to go just spend $20K on an upgrade whenever DDD hits, which is most of the time. I want to learn to be happy and content with what I have. I honestly love my stone. It is exactly everything I have always wanted. There is always something more beautiful, bigger, brighter, sparklier, and I seriously cannot keep chasing after all of them. So my only solution at this time, is to get ok with it, not buy other band, bling, reset, to combat it. We'll see how I am doing in a month. OMG...
Anyhoo, this has been plaguing me, and I just thought I would share. Don't know why, but that felt like going to confession. (I don't actually, but if I did, that is probably what I would say. )