I have always wanted to be a mom since I can remember. About a year ago I had a miscarriage, it took me a long time to deal emotionally with what happened. However, ever since then I really realized exactly how much I want to be a mom. It kind of had the opposite effect for FF, we were both 20 at the time. And coming to terms with the fact that he was going to be a dad at such a young age freaked him out. He now wants to have kids about 27-30. On the other hand I would like to start having kids 24-25. We are financially stable so that is not an issue. We are getting engaged in about a month and married in a 1-2 years. I guess I''m asking for advice on how to deal with wanting to be a mom sooner rather than later. One of my good friends had a few miscarriages but she was able to start trying again soon after and now her and her husband have a cute little 2 yr old girl. I wish my FF and I could start trying again, but we can''t and its so frustrating. I don''t know what to do. Can someone please help.