anchor31
Ideal_Rock
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my DH didn''t like it and said to me "don''t make me choose between you or my parents, because I know who I will pick". My SIL was appalled, and commented on this again today. I told her that this is typical - I have heard this for years.
You know what I would have said? "FINE." Part of being married means that YOU should come BEFORE anyone else. Anyone. I know I''ve said it before, but I''m going to say it again... this is unacceptable. I''m sorry to say this, but to me, this is a form of infidelity. You deserve better than this. It''s not just your in-laws you need to stand up to, but your husband. He''s either married to you, or he''s not. If he wants to be, he''ll have to grow up and put you and his son OVER his parents. If he can''t do that, then he doesn''t deserve you or any woman.
I''m sorry.