fieryred33143
Ideal_Rock
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I posted in FHH about my ex-bff leaving her husband. Long story short, she was very unhappy with him, he didn''t want to change, so she left. She told him she was leaving in May and instead left last weekend while he was out vacationing with his son.
I just got a call from him and we, or rather he, talked for about 30 minutes.
He called first to apologize to me for "pushing her away"
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He then went on to say pretty much the same thing over and over: he loves her, hates that he didn''t change, didn''t appreciate what he had until she was gone, best thing that ever happened to him, his kids are hurt, he''s hurt, etcetera etcetera
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I''m no dummy. I know the call was his way of trying to get me to talk her into calling him. I was very honest with him. I told him he has issues. I told him she has issues. Two people with issues = disaster. And my unprofessional advice to him was to work on his issues for his current (kids) and future relationship.
She and I have been talking. Would you tell her that he called? I don''t know if it''ll make her want to call him since she''s attempting to cut all communication for the time being.
I just got a call from him and we, or rather he, talked for about 30 minutes.
He called first to apologize to me for "pushing her away"
He then went on to say pretty much the same thing over and over: he loves her, hates that he didn''t change, didn''t appreciate what he had until she was gone, best thing that ever happened to him, his kids are hurt, he''s hurt, etcetera etcetera
I''m no dummy. I know the call was his way of trying to get me to talk her into calling him. I was very honest with him. I told him he has issues. I told him she has issues. Two people with issues = disaster. And my unprofessional advice to him was to work on his issues for his current (kids) and future relationship.
She and I have been talking. Would you tell her that he called? I don''t know if it''ll make her want to call him since she''s attempting to cut all communication for the time being.