Cehrabehra
Super_Ideal_Rock
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Okay I haven''t had my stone now for 3 months and while I''m totally fine with the process and time etc as far as making the ring is going, I find my imagination running wild. Forgetting what my stone looks like, thinking it is going to be ugly, that I''m going to be bored with it quickly... now a part of myself says this is ridiculous because I had the stone for 6 months before that and if anything I fell more and more in love with it (from what I can remember LMAO) and it never ceased to amaze me... now there were bursts where I was more obsessed and bursts where I was more distracted by other things, but it wasn''t on my hand, I had to get a box out so it wasn''t there winking and tempting me 24/7. But now that its gone I keep thinking oh its just not going to be lovely.... I must have imagined the sparkles.... maybe I never should have bought it, I do like my plain gold band and have found that''s all I *need*.
Is it normal to "forget" your stone? Or to have its memory fade? When you get it back does that all go away in an instant or does it take some time to get reacquainted? Or am I the only person who feels like this? I''m not talking about having the stone gone for a couple weeks but for months.... do you start having weird thoughts like it doesn''t sparkle anymore? LOL I look at pictures and it helps a little but part of my head is telling myself "oh well it sparkled that ONE TIME" LOL
Is it normal to "forget" your stone? Or to have its memory fade? When you get it back does that all go away in an instant or does it take some time to get reacquainted? Or am I the only person who feels like this? I''m not talking about having the stone gone for a couple weeks but for months.... do you start having weird thoughts like it doesn''t sparkle anymore? LOL I look at pictures and it helps a little but part of my head is telling myself "oh well it sparkled that ONE TIME" LOL