fieryred33143
Ideal_Rock
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FI and I recently found out we''re expecting (as most of you know). That said, I am the MOH for a friend''s wedding.
So here''s all of the "snags"
1. The dress: I bought it in a bigger size with the intention of altering a few weeks before the wedding. Now I''m thinking that I shouldn''t alter the dress at all because I really don''t know how I''ll be 4 weeks from now. I don''t think I''ll be showing but also don''t know if in the chest area, I''ll be bigger or the same (that''s the main area that needs to be altered). Plus, while she will never say this or ever admit it to me, I think she was looking forward to me losing some weight for the wedding (as was I) and I''m just hoping now that I won''t gain any.
2. Telling her. I wanted to wait until after her wedding to say something. And when I say after, I mean weeks after. I don''t want her worrying about me during the wedding. And on top of that, she found out she had ovarian cancer early this year when she went in to the doctor to discuss taking fertility treatments so she can try to have a baby after the wedding. She had a hysterectomy performed and obviously now cannot have children
. I know she''s going to have a hard time with this news. Not because she''s selfish or wouldn''t wish us good luck, but because every pregnant woman reminds her that she can''t have any and I don''t want to do that to her before the wedding. The problem is that I''m in charge of her bachelorette party and have to give a toast. How do I get through that without her noticing that I''m not drinking AT ALL?
So here''s all of the "snags"
1. The dress: I bought it in a bigger size with the intention of altering a few weeks before the wedding. Now I''m thinking that I shouldn''t alter the dress at all because I really don''t know how I''ll be 4 weeks from now. I don''t think I''ll be showing but also don''t know if in the chest area, I''ll be bigger or the same (that''s the main area that needs to be altered). Plus, while she will never say this or ever admit it to me, I think she was looking forward to me losing some weight for the wedding (as was I) and I''m just hoping now that I won''t gain any.
2. Telling her. I wanted to wait until after her wedding to say something. And when I say after, I mean weeks after. I don''t want her worrying about me during the wedding. And on top of that, she found out she had ovarian cancer early this year when she went in to the doctor to discuss taking fertility treatments so she can try to have a baby after the wedding. She had a hysterectomy performed and obviously now cannot have children