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telephone89 said:Also - the poll is for an affair, which I generally think of as long term, on going. Not just a one night stand.
iLander|1440189626|3917375 said:telephone89 said:Also - the poll is for an affair, which I generally think of as long term, on going. Not just a one night stand.
I guess I meant "Would you want to know if your SO slept with someone else?"
Once, twice, several times, over the course of years, has a second family, whatever. For this poll, lumping it all under "affair".
Lol!!HollyS|1440190313|3917383 said:Ongoing affair? Yes, of course, I want to know. Because I'm packing my stuff and leaving after I clean out the bank account.
chemgirl|1440190444|3917387 said:iLander|1440189626|3917375 said:telephone89 said:Also - the poll is for an affair, which I generally think of as long term, on going. Not just a one night stand.
I guess I meant "Would you want to know if your SO slept with someone else?"
Once, twice, several times, over the course of years, has a second family, whatever. For this poll, lumping it all under "affair".
It's all knowingly doing something that could destroy the marriage.
I would go further to say that I don't think the line is sex. IMO you are having an affair with someone if you get emotionally attached. Texting a coworker at all hours even after your spouse tells you to cut it out? That's an affair as far as I'm concerned.
distracts|1440214596|3917569 said:Partial quote
I would hope if he felt the need to seek out another sex partner or relationship he would discuss it with me and we would open our marriage rather than cheat on me. But that requires ten thousand times more communication, trust, and respect with and of your partner than cheating does.
Dancing Fire|1440271927|3917798 said:Ladies FYI, There are more women cheating on their husband than men cheating on their wife.
Dancing Fire|1440271927|3917798 said:Ladies FYI, There are more women cheating on their husband than men cheating on their wife.
That's b/c when women cheat they keep it a secret men on the hand brags about cheating.arkieb1|1440289422|3917851 said:Dancing Fire|1440271927|3917798 said:Ladies FYI, There are more women cheating on their husband than men cheating on their wife.
Not according the the Ashley Madison hackers where the vast majority are married men.