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MonkeyPie|1302624933|2894119 said:To the OP - it has to be a personal choice. Lots of very smart women have expressed here their own beliefs and knowledge, now you have to decide for yourself.
One thing I do wish, is that people would stop saying things like, "I had a glass of wine every night and my baby was perfectly healthy!" (Not that anyone here said exactly that, but lots of examples were given of friends/family that did this.) Anecotes mean NOTHING for something like that, and I really don't get why anyone would even offer it like it helps.
I agree with MP. These are anecdotal accounts. In addition, many developmental disorders do not develop or are not evident at birth. Having a perfect baby does not assure that the child will develop normally. That is part of the risk factor.