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I got engaged April 2011. I had always wanted a solitaire but my sister in law convinced my husband to buy me a 3 stone. I won't bore you with all the details but it was a disaster from the start. She sent him to a bad jeweler and we ended up getting the center stone replaced by my jeweler I had always gone to (my parents have been going to him for 20+)
My engagement and first year of marriage are full of bad memories caused by my sister in law who grew up the princess in the family and extremely close to my husband. The pain she's causes has affected the way I view my ring and it really only brings me bad memories of those first two bad years. Now a baby and years later my husband and I have a stronger than ever bond and I brought up resetting my ring.
He told me he thinks it's a great idea and gave me the go ahead.
My worry is how to deal with people who find it sacrilegious to change it. I know that his sister will be the first and foremost leader of that parade. Has anyone encountered questions and comments about having done this? I don't want to tell people the real reasons behind my changing it. I don't like to speak badly about anyone and cause drama so I don't know how to best get people to understand my decision.
Side note****** any recommendations for a ring setting that will go nicely with a channel set band (round stones) OTHER than a channel set band e ring?
I got engaged April 2011. I had always wanted a solitaire but my sister in law convinced my husband to buy me a 3 stone. I won't bore you with all the details but it was a disaster from the start. She sent him to a bad jeweler and we ended up getting the center stone replaced by my jeweler I had always gone to (my parents have been going to him for 20+)
My engagement and first year of marriage are full of bad memories caused by my sister in law who grew up the princess in the family and extremely close to my husband. The pain she's causes has affected the way I view my ring and it really only brings me bad memories of those first two bad years. Now a baby and years later my husband and I have a stronger than ever bond and I brought up resetting my ring.
He told me he thinks it's a great idea and gave me the go ahead.
My worry is how to deal with people who find it sacrilegious to change it. I know that his sister will be the first and foremost leader of that parade. Has anyone encountered questions and comments about having done this? I don't want to tell people the real reasons behind my changing it. I don't like to speak badly about anyone and cause drama so I don't know how to best get people to understand my decision.
Side note****** any recommendations for a ring setting that will go nicely with a channel set band (round stones) OTHER than a channel set band e ring?