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Brilliant_Rock
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I'm posting to see how others interpret this action.
My SO (of several years) has two college friends getting married. I didn't go to his college but I've met them both in passing. As a couple, we stayed with his friend (the male) when we visited his town, but this was before he and the woman (SO knew her in college too) were dating.
SO is in the bridal party and just went to his out of town bachelor party. He's had the save the date for a while now and requested that I stick it on my calendar because it's in a pretty busy time for me.
Invite arrives today. No plus one, no "& date". Just an invitation for him.
It's not a small wedding. ie more than 100 people.
Am I overreacting if I feel quite offended? How would you react? I've told SO that I'm really quite offended and his position is, "what I am supposed to do?"... I have my thoughts on what he can do but am mulling over if I'm just being a cranky-panks and too demanding.
My SO (of several years) has two college friends getting married. I didn't go to his college but I've met them both in passing. As a couple, we stayed with his friend (the male) when we visited his town, but this was before he and the woman (SO knew her in college too) were dating.
SO is in the bridal party and just went to his out of town bachelor party. He's had the save the date for a while now and requested that I stick it on my calendar because it's in a pretty busy time for me.
Invite arrives today. No plus one, no "& date". Just an invitation for him.
It's not a small wedding. ie more than 100 people.
Am I overreacting if I feel quite offended? How would you react? I've told SO that I'm really quite offended and his position is, "what I am supposed to do?"... I have my thoughts on what he can do but am mulling over if I'm just being a cranky-panks and too demanding.