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Heart diamond remembrance bracelet Blue +Pink Clear diamond

VanOrton

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Hi all

My wife and I were recently expecting our first child, we decided not to find if it was a boy of a girl.
As a gift for her I decided to get a cross over toi & moi ring with a pink and blue heart to represent that uncertainty but either way it would have our hearts.


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I have bought a GIA .5 ct Purple Pink Fancy Diamond already but while searching for a blue diamond we had the worst news and we found out that the baby had a severe problem with the left side of its heart. Numerous specialist and scans later the only real option was to terminate the pregnancy. I was devastated but for my poor wife it has been just awful.

I have decided that I would like to continue to make a piece of jewelry but that it would be in remembrance. I thought that perhaps a bracelet that was similar to the Tiffany Elsa Peretti design but with a pink heart, a blue heart and then a clear heart all in bezels in the positions. Then engraved on the gold tab near the clasp just the date and an inscription.

http://media.tiffany.com/is/image/T...D?$EcomItemL$&defaultImage=NoImageAvailable&&
(sorry it wouldnt link to image)

At the moment I am struggling to find a blue diamond that would work. The blue stones are really polarizing, in that some are fantastically expensive and then others that are more affordable I don't think many people would want as they are just gray or muddy (if dark) or they can look like a poor colour clear stone if the "faint" or "fancy light".

Generally I would not be averse of buying a colour enhanced stone but it appears that natural blues are near impossible to create and I feel that it needs to be natural for this piece. Size wise I am looking for something from about .25 - .5 ct blue or blue gray. I have one option of a .29 fancy blue stone from reddiam that is currently on hold for me while I await better pics.

Also for the colourless diamond something tells me that I should for once buy a completely flawless stone, so a D FL (not IF). But I see these are few and far between. Anyone know of any at .5ct? I see one on bluenile but its a bit bigger.

For the braclet what would everyones opinion be for the gold? I think the stones should be in bezels and I would think rose gold on the pink, platnium/white gold on the clear then what on the blue? My wife mainly wears yellow gold so I was thinking the chain could be yellow gold.

thanks for any comments
 

pinkjewel

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Re: Heart diamond remembrance bracelet Blue +Pink Clear diam

I am so sorry for your loss. What a terrible ordeal for the both of you. Although I understand your desire to make a "remembrance" bracelet-is your wife on board with this idea? I know for myself I would not be able to wear a bracelet that would remind me constantly of such a devastating loss. However, if your wife feels otherwise I can understand with your wanting to continue with a jewelry piece.

I don't think I would do the design you are looking at as the diamonds will turn constantly on the wrist and I don't think it would protect the hearts, nor show them to their best advantage. These are not inexpensive diamonds-lol and I would try to create a design with the three together on the top with a more structured bangle. Maybe pink in the middle since it's larger bezeled in rose gold, and your blue on one side and the white on the other bezeled in white gold or platinum.

About blue diamonds- yes it's really hard to see they're blue unless the blue is intense. GIA grades softer with both blue and green diamonds than pinks. It's also hard to "amp" the color up in blue diamonds. I have heard of some success with partial cupping under a blue diamond with some new blue rhodium plating. Haven't seen the results myself, but am going by what a vendor recently told me.
 

VanOrton

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Re: Heart diamond remembrance bracelet Blue +Pink Clear diam

Thank you pinkjewel for your thoughtful response.

I have not shared the idea with my wife as she didn't even know about the ring. I have thought about it a great deal but believed it would be a tasteful reminder of something special that we both lost. I hoped that something that beautiful would not be morbid but I will certainly spend some more time thinking about it.

Regarding setting on a bracelet I struggled to find a design that I was happy would be "light" and not too serious. However I realise that by taking this approach it does slightly cheapen the stones. I am also concerned that set in this way the FL Clear might not remain that way for long. Do you have any images of anything similar to what you had in mind.
 

pinkjewel

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Re: Heart diamond remembrance bracelet Blue +Pink Clear diam

Well- I have a picture in my mind-lol.
If you were just using 2 diamonds I would have suggested the bracelets that Jewels by Grace is making-like the one snowdrop recently posted-pic below.
But what I'm thinking is similar-except the opening is underneath the wrist and the three bezeled diamonds are joined together on the top of the bracelet. This will keep the diamonds on top of the wrist, protected, and she would still have a slim easy to wear bracelet style. I would make sure that the bracelet is oval style rather than round to keep the bangle in place. I'm sure Jewels by Grace could make a really special one for you.

eta- I did not mean that it was morbid in any way and I'm sorry if I came across with that thought. I merely meant it would personally make me sad. But I do see your point of view, too.

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pinkjewel

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Re: Heart diamond remembrance bracelet Blue +Pink Clear diam

Or alternatively, you could have 3 very slim bangles made-opening on the bottom. Each with one diamond on top and she could "stack" the bracelets. Or 2 bracelets- one in the style of the photo with 2 hearts and the other with a single heart diamond on top.
 

VanOrton

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Re: Heart diamond remembrance bracelet Blue +Pink Clear diam

Thanks for the pic I like the design but she just inherited something very similar. Will keep thinking.

What's people's thoughts on this stone?
.29ct. 3.8mm x 4.5mm
GIA Fancy Gray Blue
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VanOrton

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Re: Heart diamond remembrance bracelet Blue +Pink Clear diam

The online retailer has a 30 day return policy so I asked for a picture that he felt actually represents the true colour of the stone in the fles so we don't waste each others time.
The above was the picture he sent me and the original one on the website is this....

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It is quite a big difference and while I was happy with this colour not sure if the other is a bit gray. Certainly the clarity is not superb but these blue stones become silly money with all boxes ticked

Opinions please?
 

pinkjewel

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Re: Heart diamond remembrance bracelet Blue +Pink Clear diam

It looks almost deep violet on my screen in the photo that the vendor says is more IRL. But I like it- yes its heavily included, but it shows as blue!!! No small feat unless you pay mega, mega bucks. :$$): Just an FYI- you may want to ask to have this thread moved to the colored stones forum or at least ask for opinions on this diamond there. Most of us that "play" with fancy colored diamonds hang out there. Also- do you have a picture of your pink heart? If you're going to use this with the pink you may want to consider the shape of the hearts so that they flow well together. FWIW- I also own a pink diamond heart around .50cts and was looking at doing a bypass ring, too- so I went through some of the same issues looking at sizes and shapes together- although I was trying to find a natural green diamond to work with it. Also thought about a bracelet or pendant- would your wife wear a necklace? Three heart diamonds set vertically with small diamond halos?
Also- would your wife "stack" bracelets? it's a big trend right now and just because she already has a similar bracelet doesn't mean she might not like more to wear with it. ;))
 

VanOrton

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Re: Heart diamond remembrance bracelet Blue +Pink Clear diam

I'm really glad that you suggested I post a picture of the pink stone because now I'm worried they are too similar in that the pink is purple pink and the blue looks a bit purple also...

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pinkjewel

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Re: Heart diamond remembrance bracelet Blue +Pink Clear diam

VanOrton|1407411694|3727813 said:
I'm really glad that you suggested I post a picture of the pink stone because now I'm worried they are too similar in that the pink is purple pink and the blue looks a bit purple also...

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Hmmmm... well it depends how you end up setting them. I don't think the colors will look similar once set. I think your purplish pink heart will "pink" up a bit once set in rose gold. Also- despite what the vendor's picture shows, I think if the blue diamond was violet he/she would have mentioned it. What do they say that it looks like IRL? If your pink and blue diamond are similarly sized (mm- not ct. weight) they may look nice on either side of a colourless diamond- but the hearts are different proportions- the blue diamond is wider which may be an issue. If you're doing a random type bracelet like the one in your original post they'd do fine. So, if the vendor has a good return policy I'd look at it in person with your pink diamond and meanwhile decide on a setting and see if the diamonds will work together in what you want to do.
 
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