TryingAgain
Rough_Rock
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- May 20, 2008
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Hey girls...
I was having this discussion with my BFF this weekend.
Do you agree with the old saying of "Once a cheater, always a cheater"?
Do you think that someone who once cheated can be in a faithful relationship?
Do you think that someone younger can grow out of it?
Honestly, SO has a horrible track record. He is very young though. He was in a lot of relationships in his teens and early 20''s where both parties stepped out on the other. To me it just seeems like kid games of, "Instead of calling it quits, I''ll just stoop to your level." I truly believe that things with us are different. I know we have a mutual respect where if we weren''t happy, we respect and love each other enough to just part ways and admit that we might not be perfect with each other. That being said... I would never forgive someone who actually cheated on me. I just feel that once that trust is lost, I could personally never regain it. I think that every relationship is different. I''ve seen people who were total womanizers/manizers (LOL) that turned into completely faithful husbands and wives when they found the right person. Key thing, finding the right person.
So what do you ladies think?
I was having this discussion with my BFF this weekend.
Do you agree with the old saying of "Once a cheater, always a cheater"?
Do you think that someone who once cheated can be in a faithful relationship?
Do you think that someone younger can grow out of it?
Honestly, SO has a horrible track record. He is very young though. He was in a lot of relationships in his teens and early 20''s where both parties stepped out on the other. To me it just seeems like kid games of, "Instead of calling it quits, I''ll just stoop to your level." I truly believe that things with us are different. I know we have a mutual respect where if we weren''t happy, we respect and love each other enough to just part ways and admit that we might not be perfect with each other. That being said... I would never forgive someone who actually cheated on me. I just feel that once that trust is lost, I could personally never regain it. I think that every relationship is different. I''ve seen people who were total womanizers/manizers (LOL) that turned into completely faithful husbands and wives when they found the right person. Key thing, finding the right person.
So what do you ladies think?