princessplease
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I was curious about this. How did the topic of engagement/marriage get brought up in your relationship with FF, FI, or DH?
Did you or your SO bring it up? How? How did it move from engagement/marriage talk to ring talk and looking?
FI and I talked about getting married but never went out to look at rings following our talks. Of course I brought up the topic of engagement, but in a playful way, so he didn''t feel on the spot and pressured. I was kinda nervous about bringing it up because we had only been together for about 11 months at that time, but I knew he was the man for me. We then had a few talks about marriage. One day, we were in NYC on Canal St and FI looks in a window of one of the jewelers and said "Wow look at that engagement ring. It''s lovely." I said "Eh, it''s ok, not really my style." He then goes, "What is your style? How about tomorrow we go to the mall and you can show me what style you like?" Of course, we did not buy a mall ring, but that was how we got into the whole engagement/ring discussions.
What''s your story?
Did you or your SO bring it up? How? How did it move from engagement/marriage talk to ring talk and looking?
FI and I talked about getting married but never went out to look at rings following our talks. Of course I brought up the topic of engagement, but in a playful way, so he didn''t feel on the spot and pressured. I was kinda nervous about bringing it up because we had only been together for about 11 months at that time, but I knew he was the man for me. We then had a few talks about marriage. One day, we were in NYC on Canal St and FI looks in a window of one of the jewelers and said "Wow look at that engagement ring. It''s lovely." I said "Eh, it''s ok, not really my style." He then goes, "What is your style? How about tomorrow we go to the mall and you can show me what style you like?" Of course, we did not buy a mall ring, but that was how we got into the whole engagement/ring discussions.
What''s your story?