Happy Sunday to you all!
It was so fun to have found PC yesterday and I spent a good amt of time reading eveyone''s sentiments, stories, and advice last night. I was on top of the world! We just got back from a fun day at the jewelers, talked about what the wedding would be like (I had to put the axe on the circus tent with the elephant rides,) it was just a fun afternoon. As mentioned in a different post, we had/have not discussed the size/specs/cost of any ring yet. I found the cut I adore, and the rest, I think, is totally up to him. Well, I guess I will help a little in advising some sort of setting! Jewelry is beautiful, and very fun to wear, but I am not that girl who has to have the biggest, or the best of anything. In ways that is a waste of money! Earrings, bracelets, rings, keychains, aluminum foil - I love any and all things sparkly!!
Well, this morning we were invited out to breakfast with his parents and sister and brother-in-law. Gotta love the early risers! We were sitting at the table having fun conversation about what was planned for Easter when all the sudden his Brother In Law blurted out "So, how did the hunting go? *WINK NUDGE WINIK* Did she like the stone you got??" WHA?? I didnt know he had a stone picked out?? WHA?? He turned to me and said "Umm, it went well, she found a few things she likes..." and his sister chimed in with "Well, it she doesn''t like what you have picked out, she''s ridiculous." Very flat, very blunt, and not iin any lighthearted joking matter. The convo pretty much died right there. I was confused, and very much offended by what his SIL said. She''s not the most personable person on earth.
I don''t know what was meant by that, do they know more than I do? Pretty sure I was there at the jeweler''s with him, and pretty sure there isn''t a ring on my important finger. Maybe just a slip of the tounge?? I was confused with all the gesturing, nudging and winking. A part of me should just say relax, no big deal, they were just asking how it all went. And a part of me is all "WHAT''S THE FREAKING DEAL? HE BOUGHT A STONE??? HOW MUCH DID IT COST??? WHAT IS GOING ON??!?!?!?!?" I am so concerned, my guy usually won''t make hasty, rash decisions. He''s the carefully research, plan, rethink 50 times, research again, think some more, then buy kind of person.
I''ve been the 500-question girl all morning, and he keeps tellng me to relax, it''s sunday, make it a happy day!! i can''t help but laugh, and cringe at the same time!! We are taking his 2 nephews to the Imax theater today, should be a fun time... but I can''t help these crazy ring thoughts flashing around my head!
What would you do? Am I freaking out about nothing??
It was so fun to have found PC yesterday and I spent a good amt of time reading eveyone''s sentiments, stories, and advice last night. I was on top of the world! We just got back from a fun day at the jewelers, talked about what the wedding would be like (I had to put the axe on the circus tent with the elephant rides,) it was just a fun afternoon. As mentioned in a different post, we had/have not discussed the size/specs/cost of any ring yet. I found the cut I adore, and the rest, I think, is totally up to him. Well, I guess I will help a little in advising some sort of setting! Jewelry is beautiful, and very fun to wear, but I am not that girl who has to have the biggest, or the best of anything. In ways that is a waste of money! Earrings, bracelets, rings, keychains, aluminum foil - I love any and all things sparkly!!
Well, this morning we were invited out to breakfast with his parents and sister and brother-in-law. Gotta love the early risers! We were sitting at the table having fun conversation about what was planned for Easter when all the sudden his Brother In Law blurted out "So, how did the hunting go? *WINK NUDGE WINIK* Did she like the stone you got??" WHA?? I didnt know he had a stone picked out?? WHA?? He turned to me and said "Umm, it went well, she found a few things she likes..." and his sister chimed in with "Well, it she doesn''t like what you have picked out, she''s ridiculous." Very flat, very blunt, and not iin any lighthearted joking matter. The convo pretty much died right there. I was confused, and very much offended by what his SIL said. She''s not the most personable person on earth.
I don''t know what was meant by that, do they know more than I do? Pretty sure I was there at the jeweler''s with him, and pretty sure there isn''t a ring on my important finger. Maybe just a slip of the tounge?? I was confused with all the gesturing, nudging and winking. A part of me should just say relax, no big deal, they were just asking how it all went. And a part of me is all "WHAT''S THE FREAKING DEAL? HE BOUGHT A STONE??? HOW MUCH DID IT COST??? WHAT IS GOING ON??!?!?!?!?" I am so concerned, my guy usually won''t make hasty, rash decisions. He''s the carefully research, plan, rethink 50 times, research again, think some more, then buy kind of person.
I''ve been the 500-question girl all morning, and he keeps tellng me to relax, it''s sunday, make it a happy day!! i can''t help but laugh, and cringe at the same time!! We are taking his 2 nephews to the Imax theater today, should be a fun time... but I can''t help these crazy ring thoughts flashing around my head!
What would you do? Am I freaking out about nothing??