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Shiny_Rock
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- Apr 28, 2008
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Help me!!!
Since I removed myself from the LIW list earlier this year, I have been desperately trying not to think about getting engaged or getting my hopes up. We were going through a rough patch so it wasn''t that hard. But we have been going so well for a few months now and I can''t stop thinking about it again. To top it off, I know he has the ring!! And he is excited about getting engaged/married now. He tells me that he is just waiting for the right time to propose (he has it planned). All in all it feels different to how it did before.
However, I am really getting my hopes up for next weekend. We are going to Melbourne for the weekend. We are staying at a relatively nice hotel, and on the Saturday night we are going to a tramcar restaurant http://www.tramrestaurant.com.au/ for dinner, and then going to go see Wicked! It will be awesome. Then the following weekend it is my graduation party. So I keep thinking how awesome it would be for him to propose to me at dinner on Saturday, so that I can tell all of my friends and family at the graduation party the following weekend. It seems fitting - that we enter the new stage of our lives (post university) with a new status.
But my logical side tells me that it won''t happen next weekend. He has told me for a while that he has a particular time of year picked out to propose, and I can''t see this weekend being it, more likely my birthday or our anniversary. He doesn''t know that I would see this time as being significant. I can''t tell him either, because he wants to surprise me and he wouldn''t do it even if he had planned it if I let on that I even suspect it could be that weekend.
I am terrified that I will start to get resentful again if it doesn''t happen soon. I am back to wanting it sooo much, and if that happens over a prolonged period without me knowing when the proposal will be, my type A personality might take me back to where we were before. I need some help to put it all in perspective and keep my expectations in check.
Since I removed myself from the LIW list earlier this year, I have been desperately trying not to think about getting engaged or getting my hopes up. We were going through a rough patch so it wasn''t that hard. But we have been going so well for a few months now and I can''t stop thinking about it again. To top it off, I know he has the ring!! And he is excited about getting engaged/married now. He tells me that he is just waiting for the right time to propose (he has it planned). All in all it feels different to how it did before.
However, I am really getting my hopes up for next weekend. We are going to Melbourne for the weekend. We are staying at a relatively nice hotel, and on the Saturday night we are going to a tramcar restaurant http://www.tramrestaurant.com.au/ for dinner, and then going to go see Wicked! It will be awesome. Then the following weekend it is my graduation party. So I keep thinking how awesome it would be for him to propose to me at dinner on Saturday, so that I can tell all of my friends and family at the graduation party the following weekend. It seems fitting - that we enter the new stage of our lives (post university) with a new status.
But my logical side tells me that it won''t happen next weekend. He has told me for a while that he has a particular time of year picked out to propose, and I can''t see this weekend being it, more likely my birthday or our anniversary. He doesn''t know that I would see this time as being significant. I can''t tell him either, because he wants to surprise me and he wouldn''t do it even if he had planned it if I let on that I even suspect it could be that weekend.
I am terrified that I will start to get resentful again if it doesn''t happen soon. I am back to wanting it sooo much, and if that happens over a prolonged period without me knowing when the proposal will be, my type A personality might take me back to where we were before. I need some help to put it all in perspective and keep my expectations in check.