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So I have a younger sister I am estranged from because she has an "eeyore" personality, meaning "woe is me" and generally pessimistic and dramatic. I can't take the downer she gives me when we talk so we haven't for several years. Yesterday she sent me an email. She is having surgery next week ( one of many , I swear she does it for the attention) and in case she dies she just wanted me to know a few things. Apparently we have several genetic conditions which run on our maternal side. Two I can deal with and I suspect from previous episodes they are probably true. The third is multiple myeloma which killed our grandmother and aunt, and is apparently a genetic form. It hits after 60. My grandmother got it in her late 70's, my aunt in her early 70's and it gets earlier for next generations. I am 54. My mother died of non genetic breast cancer at 32. My two cousins have had genetic testing and carry it. My sister has the first two, she hasn't found out about the myeloma, yet. MM has no cure at this point. In the back of my mind I have always thought it a possibility but didn't think much of it. I don't think I want to know. Would you want to know if you knew it was incurable??? It's really bumming out my day.