JewelFreak
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Sorry this is long -- I really need an explanation & need badly to vent. Hang with me, ok?
When we moved south 7 years ago I knew two things would be a big challenge for me: 1.) Bugs -- I hate them. 2.) The way too many southerners treat animals. Their reputation is fairly well known & not good. (There are also many who are great pet parents.) Rather than getting used to it, I have an increasingly hard time living with the animal misery I see around me, perpetrated not by grizzly old geezers but by people way young enough to know better. We live in the burbs of a city, not the backwoods.
I've lived in every section of the U.S. except the southwest, and lived & worked all over the world. Nowhere else (except China) have I seen as prevalent neglect of pet dogs as here -- in fact, everywhere else many would have been removed from the home by Animal Control. Here, no requirements beyond shelter, food, water -- and the "shelter" is often in name only, such as an open porch in the rain & in midwinter when temps go into the teens. They live their lives and rot in backyards, frequently un-neutered, un-walked, unsocialized, definitely un-washed, sometimes sick. When asked, this is what my neighbors indignantly say: "I don't want that dirty dog in the house!!" (He's dirty 'cause he lives outdoors & you don't bathe him.) "Dogs don't belong in houses!" "She likes being outside & I don't have time to walk her." "He's so bad on leash, I can't handle him." (Try an obedience class?) And the best one from next door: "Oh, dogs don't care!" Each of these quotes is one I've heard myself. And others. From people in McMansions as well as small ranch houses.
To "why did you get a dog?" the usual answer is, "The kids wanted one." Same tone as they'd use about a new X-Box. The animal as thing. A friend's golden retriever now must lose a leg to a problem brought on by living outside & neglect: his vet also recommends he be shaved bare & treated for rampant skin fungus. He has not been bathed in YEARS. Confined all day to a screened small back porch, he has gone from a sweet funny lovely dog to one they're afraid will bite someone. I'm going to recommend they put him down -- "I WON'T HAVE THAT DOG IN THE HOUSE SCRATCHING UP MY NEW FLOORS!" declares her husband. He was HIS dog before they met, not hers. He has no chance of healing well the way he is forced to live.
Dogs (& cats) are treated worse than livestock. Sheep, cattle provide a living & are cared for, not so, dogs. Can anybody explain why? Dogs used to be workers on farms & not pets -- I get that. But this is the 21st century & the rest of the country has changed as we learn more & more about their behaviors & needs. Almost all these folks brag about their Christianity; it's not a version I was taught. I'd love to understand what's up.
--- Laurie
When we moved south 7 years ago I knew two things would be a big challenge for me: 1.) Bugs -- I hate them. 2.) The way too many southerners treat animals. Their reputation is fairly well known & not good. (There are also many who are great pet parents.) Rather than getting used to it, I have an increasingly hard time living with the animal misery I see around me, perpetrated not by grizzly old geezers but by people way young enough to know better. We live in the burbs of a city, not the backwoods.
I've lived in every section of the U.S. except the southwest, and lived & worked all over the world. Nowhere else (except China) have I seen as prevalent neglect of pet dogs as here -- in fact, everywhere else many would have been removed from the home by Animal Control. Here, no requirements beyond shelter, food, water -- and the "shelter" is often in name only, such as an open porch in the rain & in midwinter when temps go into the teens. They live their lives and rot in backyards, frequently un-neutered, un-walked, unsocialized, definitely un-washed, sometimes sick. When asked, this is what my neighbors indignantly say: "I don't want that dirty dog in the house!!" (He's dirty 'cause he lives outdoors & you don't bathe him.) "Dogs don't belong in houses!" "She likes being outside & I don't have time to walk her." "He's so bad on leash, I can't handle him." (Try an obedience class?) And the best one from next door: "Oh, dogs don't care!" Each of these quotes is one I've heard myself. And others. From people in McMansions as well as small ranch houses.
To "why did you get a dog?" the usual answer is, "The kids wanted one." Same tone as they'd use about a new X-Box. The animal as thing. A friend's golden retriever now must lose a leg to a problem brought on by living outside & neglect: his vet also recommends he be shaved bare & treated for rampant skin fungus. He has not been bathed in YEARS. Confined all day to a screened small back porch, he has gone from a sweet funny lovely dog to one they're afraid will bite someone. I'm going to recommend they put him down -- "I WON'T HAVE THAT DOG IN THE HOUSE SCRATCHING UP MY NEW FLOORS!" declares her husband. He was HIS dog before they met, not hers. He has no chance of healing well the way he is forced to live.
Dogs (& cats) are treated worse than livestock. Sheep, cattle provide a living & are cared for, not so, dogs. Can anybody explain why? Dogs used to be workers on farms & not pets -- I get that. But this is the 21st century & the rest of the country has changed as we learn more & more about their behaviors & needs. Almost all these folks brag about their Christianity; it's not a version I was taught. I'd love to understand what's up.
--- Laurie