random_thought
Brilliant_Rock
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My mother isn't expected to make it much longer. I'm driving out to see her next week with my family but I'm not sure what to say to her. She's been battling cancer for almost 15 years now so it feels like I've been saying goodbye for 15 years. Just keep saying that I love her? We've started planning the funeral and getting her input on what she would like. I know she is scared of what is next. Do I just chat about everyday things? Or does that come off as ignorant? Unloving?
It's hard to lose your mom so young I was hoping she would live to see one more grandchild but my stupid infertility got in the way. Is it ok to bring my 4 year old to see her or do you think it will be overwhelming to him, her or both?
Ugh
Thanks in advance for any advice....
It's hard to lose your mom so young I was hoping she would live to see one more grandchild but my stupid infertility got in the way. Is it ok to bring my 4 year old to see her or do you think it will be overwhelming to him, her or both?
Ugh
Thanks in advance for any advice....