NonieMarie
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My niece is getting married in 2 weeks. It has been stressful because 2013 has been all about "her" wedding. Her other aunt and I have gone out of our way to make everything as special as possible. My daughter lives in another state and last weekend her boyfriend flew her to Ca where he is completing boot camp. He proposed and she put 1 pic on FB. His mother was there and was announcing the news on her FB account. My nephew posted a strange comment and my daughter said thank you. Well, he sent a private msg that he was being sarcastic and that she was rude and selfish because she shared the info about her engagement right before his sister's wedding. He went on and on with some truly hurtful comments. My daughter was at the airport so upset because of what he did. On FB they have no common friends only a few family members. I see nothing wrong with what she did and don't think she should have told her fiancé's family that they could not share their happy news because her cousins would get their noses out of joint. I am floored that no one in my family will tell him that he was an ass.
His sister has not acknowledged her news either. Because of this she has decided not to fly in for the wedding. She called her cousin and said that she would not be able to attend but would be sending the gift and cost of the plate. She also said that she would be looking forward to the photos and that her cousin was going to be a beautiful bride. I am happy that she is taking the high road. I am not looking forward to seeing these self centered people at the rehearsal and the wedding.
His sister has not acknowledged her news either. Because of this she has decided not to fly in for the wedding. She called her cousin and said that she would not be able to attend but would be sending the gift and cost of the plate. She also said that she would be looking forward to the photos and that her cousin was going to be a beautiful bride. I am happy that she is taking the high road. I am not looking forward to seeing these self centered people at the rehearsal and the wedding.