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Ideal_Rock
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Hi everyone!
So I recently started my nursing internship and it requires long hours sometimes. I have a dog that I adopted in 2008 (she is 4.5 years old) that my parents offered to care for while I was in nursing school (1 year). I would see her every weekend and so our 'relationship' and bond never really changed. She is a HUGE people person. Love's mostly everyone that she meets and she is a huge mush!
It was decided a while ago that Layla (rescue dog) would come back and live with me full time when I got myself situated with everything in Jersey. She has gotten very used to having someone around often during the day because my mom is not working.
So I decided that I didn't want her to be lonely at my house during the days that I'm putting in 12 hour shifts.
Enter Pumbaa the English Bulldog puppy. I had always wanted this kind of dog and I know a lot about the breed and their temperament and figured they would end up being really good companions for each other.
Pumbaa is 4 months old and obviously very playful. Layla, on the other hand, is very calm and relaxed. Likes to play sometimes but otherwise enjoys sleeping, roaming the house or backyard, laying next to someone and being pet, and of course....eating.
Layla likes other calm dogs. She hates dogs that antagonize her and she has no problem putting them in their place. She doesn't EVER bite but she WILL snap if she doesn't like something the dog is doing (such as sniffing her private areas )
So, I introduced the two of them. They both did fine, no major fighting or anything like that but I can tell she views him as an annoyance and she gives me stares like "did you really have to bring him into our family?"
She does get curious with him....likes to sniff around sometimes. He does show signs of being submissive. He will "bow" down to her and try to play and she wants nothing to do with that.
They both sleep in my bed. Her spot is next to my head, his is next to my feet. He attempted to get near my upper body yesterday and she snapped at him and made him stay near my feet. Sometimes when she snaps, he gets annoyed and will bark a bit at her but thats it.
She will also snap if he tries to take her toy away while she is playing with it but otherwise, she doesn't mind him borrowing them if she isn't playing with them.
I know this kind of stuff takes time but I really don't want her to resent me or hate me for bringing a new dog into the family. I was really hoping that she would understand that he is a puppy and kind of take on a motherly role. Wishful thinking, huh? I did notice that whenever he is in his crate (which he hates!!!!) and he is barking, she will sit next to him and whimper. Not sure what that may mean.
I'm hoping that as he gets older (and lazier/calmer) she will stop with the snapping and learn to love him. Am I only wishing again?
Does anyone have any tips? I really, really want them to love each other!
Anytime they eat, Layla gets food first, treats first, and anything else.
HAAAALLLLPPPPPP!!!!
So I recently started my nursing internship and it requires long hours sometimes. I have a dog that I adopted in 2008 (she is 4.5 years old) that my parents offered to care for while I was in nursing school (1 year). I would see her every weekend and so our 'relationship' and bond never really changed. She is a HUGE people person. Love's mostly everyone that she meets and she is a huge mush!
It was decided a while ago that Layla (rescue dog) would come back and live with me full time when I got myself situated with everything in Jersey. She has gotten very used to having someone around often during the day because my mom is not working.
So I decided that I didn't want her to be lonely at my house during the days that I'm putting in 12 hour shifts.
Enter Pumbaa the English Bulldog puppy. I had always wanted this kind of dog and I know a lot about the breed and their temperament and figured they would end up being really good companions for each other.
Pumbaa is 4 months old and obviously very playful. Layla, on the other hand, is very calm and relaxed. Likes to play sometimes but otherwise enjoys sleeping, roaming the house or backyard, laying next to someone and being pet, and of course....eating.
Layla likes other calm dogs. She hates dogs that antagonize her and she has no problem putting them in their place. She doesn't EVER bite but she WILL snap if she doesn't like something the dog is doing (such as sniffing her private areas )
So, I introduced the two of them. They both did fine, no major fighting or anything like that but I can tell she views him as an annoyance and she gives me stares like "did you really have to bring him into our family?"
She does get curious with him....likes to sniff around sometimes. He does show signs of being submissive. He will "bow" down to her and try to play and she wants nothing to do with that.
They both sleep in my bed. Her spot is next to my head, his is next to my feet. He attempted to get near my upper body yesterday and she snapped at him and made him stay near my feet. Sometimes when she snaps, he gets annoyed and will bark a bit at her but thats it.
She will also snap if he tries to take her toy away while she is playing with it but otherwise, she doesn't mind him borrowing them if she isn't playing with them.
I know this kind of stuff takes time but I really don't want her to resent me or hate me for bringing a new dog into the family. I was really hoping that she would understand that he is a puppy and kind of take on a motherly role. Wishful thinking, huh? I did notice that whenever he is in his crate (which he hates!!!!) and he is barking, she will sit next to him and whimper. Not sure what that may mean.
I'm hoping that as he gets older (and lazier/calmer) she will stop with the snapping and learn to love him. Am I only wishing again?
Does anyone have any tips? I really, really want them to love each other!
Anytime they eat, Layla gets food first, treats first, and anything else.
HAAAALLLLPPPPPP!!!!