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Brilliant_Rock
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My rough and tough 12 1/2 yr-old came home in tears today because his brand-new cell phone got smunched by his little friends. It wasn''t really intentional, but at the same time they should know better than to play toss with a brand new phone that doesn''t belong to them.
I am normally the most non-confrontational person ever, but when it comes to my kid...WATCH OUT! I marched right over to the park and asked which of the boys was buying me a new phone, and asked them if they were aware that I''m the one who paid for the phone, blah blah blah! I also told them to keep their mitts off other people''s property if they can''t afford to replace it. I was hot!! I got some sorry''s and even a "Yes Ma''am!" which just made feel old and ancient!
I''m feeling a little sheepish now, but my poor kid was heartbroken and he never cries anymore. He got my husband''s old phone last time, and he was super excited about getting his own cool phone. He''s crushed! I think (hope) they were aware that I wasn''t fighting his battles either, but was pissed (which is the only "swear word" I used in my rant to them) about the fact that technically it''s my property that they were messing with!
Oh well, what''s done is done...but I really think they deserved the scary lecture!? Right?? Someone please agree with me so I can stop feeling like I totally overreacted!
I am normally the most non-confrontational person ever, but when it comes to my kid...WATCH OUT! I marched right over to the park and asked which of the boys was buying me a new phone, and asked them if they were aware that I''m the one who paid for the phone, blah blah blah! I also told them to keep their mitts off other people''s property if they can''t afford to replace it. I was hot!! I got some sorry''s and even a "Yes Ma''am!" which just made feel old and ancient!
I''m feeling a little sheepish now, but my poor kid was heartbroken and he never cries anymore. He got my husband''s old phone last time, and he was super excited about getting his own cool phone. He''s crushed! I think (hope) they were aware that I wasn''t fighting his battles either, but was pissed (which is the only "swear word" I used in my rant to them) about the fact that technically it''s my property that they were messing with!
Oh well, what''s done is done...but I really think they deserved the scary lecture!? Right?? Someone please agree with me so I can stop feeling like I totally overreacted!